Among Friends

[PamfromCT]

Dear @pugvette74, @Venezia, @proudlyfromNJ, @adoreqvc, @homedecor1, @jlkz, and @MadameQueen, 

I want to thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for all your kind words and support.  You are all both sweet and wise.  I wish you a New Year full of God's blessings on you and your loved ones!

[GingerPeach]

Dear @PamfromCT

How kind of you to send Christmas greetings.  I wish the same for you and yours.  

As @pugvette74 said, don't give away your personal power.  As you probably know, this doesn't mean the ability to make others do things, it simply means using your own self to accomplish what you want and need.

Merry Christmas!

[adoreqvc]

Again PamfromCT I and my hubby enclose our blessings, and our Merry Christmas  & Happy New Years 2016 best wishes, to you and yours.

I hope to see you here often, posting and replying, and enjoying yourself.

Remember the negative replies are peolple who truly need prayers, and you need to not allow anyone to intimidate you.

"As my wise dearly departed Mother used to say "Treat them with total silence & ignore them completely, but silently  pray for them, because these need all the help, & prayers they can get".

BTW the same holds true for cyber bullies who only have courage, when they band together against someone on the internet, because alone they display what they really are which is cowards, and being a coward without their cohorts they refraim from internet cyber stalking & attacks". They also need prayers.

Pam you have just as much right to post here, so take advantage and just ignore the replies which are negative or hurtful.

Pam you can make plenty friends here, and already have, so stay, enjoy, reply, or ignore..... but do stay because I and others would always welcome you on our QVC Community BB threads.

[catwhisperer]

@PamfromCT...I hear ya. I'm sorry you were were hurt and offended. Been there, done that. I am far from being the perfect poster, but am also tired of all the bickering and phony c*rap on these boards. Merry Christmas to you!

[Lucky Charm]

And Merry Christmas to you.

But you go on to tell why you're wishing all a Merry Christmas.  You're upset.

So of course I looked back to see what may've caused you grief.  Am sure I'm not the only one!

Lots of your posts on the Yale thread.  Was that it?  Or was it because you thought Melania T should've only been photographed in pant suits?

Oh well.  We all tend to disagree on both.  And that's okay.

Happy New Year, also.

[PamfromCT]

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@Lucky Charm wrote:

And Merry Christmas to you.

But you go on to tell why you're wishing all a Merry Christmas.  You're upset.

So of course I looked back to see what may've caused you grief.  Am sure I'm not the only one!

Lots of your posts on the Yale thread.  Was that it?  Or was it because you thought Melania T should've only been photographed in pant suits?

Oh well.  We all tend to disagree on both.  And that's okay.

Happy New Year, also.

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Yes, Lucky Charm, you are correct.  Two posts on that thread are upsetting to me.  I'll clarify by repeating these posts from the same person.  Made without provocation.

"Okay I read it.  And there is nothing, and I mean NOTHING there, that could be even remotely misinterpret (sic).  So I suggest you go back and start over again.  And btw, your State, Connecticut, is a cozy little WHITE hive of upper crust So and So's who have no business telling the rest of the States how they should do ANYTHING."  That is a racist comment.

After I refuted her comment she later states:

"You can say whatever you like to make yourself feel good.  Facts speak for themselves.  Only the RICH can buy into Connecticut.  Read up on your State.  And in classic hypocrisy you can attack me.  But when you get the same it's something else all together, right?  Yeah."  Clearly, there's some class hatred going on here.

Racism can go both ways.  Either way is completely unacceptable.  Class hatred can go both ways.  Either way is completely unacceptable.

Lucky  Charm, The other topic on MT is not even worth discussing, but it is interesting that you are trolling these threads to note my comments.  Normally, I would be flattered.  I will say, Lucky Charm, that sarcasm does not flatter you.

@So @homedecor1, @jilkz, @MadameQueen, @Venezia@, @adoreqvc,

@proudlyfromNJ@, @puguette74, @GingerPeach, and @catwhisperer, I think you may understand my angst.  I may add Yale is a fine University, where my daughter works in medical research.  Although she was new in her position, they gladly gave her all the time off she needed for many trips to Boston when it was thought her husband might have a fatal brain tumor.  Thanks be to God, he is 100 percent OK.  Yale was wonderful to her.

Merry Christmas, yet again.  You girls are the best!

[newziesuzie]

@PamfromCT I enjoy your posts and you

are a caring thoughtful person so I hope you

decide to stay here with us and ignore 

the snarks even though it's hard sometimes.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

and remember you have

friends here!

❤️❤️❤️

[newziesuzie]

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@pugvette74 wrote:

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU TOO PamfromCT!!! Never give your power away...

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Great post @pugvette74!

😊