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For those who have this happen to them in their lives. 

What do you think ever happened to the bullies and the stalkers of your past?  

I am a senior now and gave thought to those awful peple who did this to me and have done this to others.  

 

One gal had her home burn down to the ground in the fires out west and she lost all her equity and her belongings.  I don't make any effort to find and locate how the others of the past have done.  

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@Puzzle Piece wrote:

 

What do you think ever happened to the bullies and the stockers of your past?  

@Puzzle Piece  What's that?

 

I was raised in a big city.  There were no such things as being bullied.  Any conflicts were immediately dealt w/fists, chains & sometimes razor blades.  Afterwards, the boys shook hands, the girls put their earrings back on & we all went our merry way.

 

One of the bad 🫏es is a retired police officer.  The others, unknown & never thought about unless I see them on the news.

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Has happened to the majority of us as we age but not to our benefit to dwell on.  I check to see if I can be beside anyone in need and I have nothing.  Somedays are easier than others.  

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I believe in karma. There has been a few times when karma kicked in for me and a few times karma adjusted my faux pas-------some one person or many,  just can't do awful things all the time and not---somehow---get punished for them. I see karma coming for many who have created the chaos and injustice going on in this world. 

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I do not know that I believe in karma, per se. Bad things happen to great people, and the other way around. Only you can control how you live your life and treat others. Not all "bullies" are bullies forever, and not all presumed "nice people" are always that nice. I do not think about the people of the past who treated me unkindly, they will not live rent free in my head.

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I do believe Karma was involved in the lifelong friction between an aunt and her child; both suffered a slow, painful death.

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I find this a somewhat sad posting.

 

KARMA is a concept of the Hindu and Buddhism religions, which discusses the principles of Cause and Effect. It discusses moral responsibility, and the opportunity to reshape one's life, even through rebirth. Intent is also part of the  process, not just the action itself. 

 

I would not want to wish ill upon someone I personally knew and grew up with. When people are young, they can be stupid and careless.  Perhaps their parents did not teach them well.  

 

I have never had a stalker (NOT stocker)--I suppose it occurs because of the relationships you have with people, or if you are famous and have your photos published all the time. 

 

Bullies are everywhere and anyone can be a bully. Manners and etiquette, and kindness and TEACHING help to mitigate this. 

 

There is a major difference between someone who is truly evil and someone who is just mean at the moment because they can get away with it, and did not know any better.

 

I would never take satisfaction in knowing someone from my past lost everything and suffered tremendously.

 

It is important to live your OWN life the best you can, and forgive others. 

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@Mz iMac" put their earrings back on'"...I am screaming!!

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@Mz iMac wrote:

@Puzzle Piece wrote:

 

What do you think ever happened to the bullies and the stockers of your past?  

@Puzzle Piece  What's that?

 

I was raised in a big city.  There were no such things as being bullied.  Any conflicts were immediately dealt w/fists, chains & sometimes razor blades.  Afterwards, the boys shook hands, the girls put their earrings back on & we all went our merry way.

 

One of the bad 🫏es is a retired police officer.  The others, unknown & never thought about unless I see them on the news.


 

 

I think she meant to say stalkers.

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I also believe in karma.  I have seen some of the girls that were considered "pretty" in school and father time has not been kind to them.  I remember being bullied because my appearance did not hold up to their standards.