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[raven-blackbird]

On 11/20/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

On 11/20/2014 raven-blackbird said:

On 11/20/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

On 11/20/2014 jubilant said:

If these women think they did something wrong ( even though they didn't do anything wrong) than they need to forgive what they don't really need to forgive but think they need to forgive.

I'm tired of this argument.

Having to "forgive" implies wrongdoing.

They need to understand that they DID NOTHING WRONG, not perpetuate the notion that they DID by having to forgive themselves.

I'm outty.

see...........that's the deal with rape...........it isn't pretty, it isn't packaged in this nice neat little box...........it's dirty, it's messy and you don't get to package it in a socially acceptable box............IF you want to come out of it..............IF you want to heal from it...............IF you want to understand and prevent it......IF you want to come out of it as a whole person again......you have to look straight at it, with all it's warts and whiskers.......you can't get past what you truly don't understand...................................raven

As I already said, I do NOT need a primer on rape from you.

I do NOT need to know about healing from you.

Thank you.

I kinda think you do.............but hey, that's just a personal opinion..........................raven

[QueenDanceALot]

On 11/20/2014 reese2 said:

On 11/20/2014 KittyLouWhoToo said:

On 11/20/2014 reese2 said:

Alrighty then.

And her (raven) answer had nothing whatever to do with my point.

I know it didn't, which is why I responded. Sorry if I made it worse.

You didn't, reese.

[reese2]

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