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The doctors I go to always say my weight is fine... but I tell them I would like to be 20 pounds lighter... It confuses me that doctors think it is OK to be a bit  heavier than slim.  

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Re: " Fear of Food "

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@BeccaLou   Has your MD suggested a  low cholesterol diet or something related to borderline type 2 diabetes or borderline high blood pressure, or diverticulitis?  Just wants you  to llose weight in general.

 

Would need to know more in order to be helpful since there are so many special diets around,  including those recommended by doctors.

 

If you have undergone a great deal of stress that can also help to decrease normal appetite.  

 

For example, heated arguments during a meal result in me having severe stomach  pains.   When an argument starts I put my fork down and save my plate for later.

 

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@cactusgal wrote:

@BeccaLou The loss of your husband can also cause you to lose your appetite. I am so sorry for your loss Heart


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I agree, depression can have a huge impact on appetite!

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My sister survived a 70% blockage in the widow maker coronary artery (LAD artery). Now with all her dietary restrictions she said she is afraid to eat. The medical support staff said this is very common.

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My aunt developed a fear of food after being diagnosed with diabetes.   

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Wel,l I think you have more to fight with if you have a few pounds in case you get ill.

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@BeccaLou wrote:

My doctor has me very afraid of food contents, so much so I have a appetite problem.


I think we need more information if we are going to understand. What was the food discussion about specifically? If you care to share.

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@Effie54 wrote:

@BeccaLou wrote:

My doctor has me very afraid of food contents, so much so I have a appetite problem.


Your doctor has you afraid of food?? Why? Additives? The pandemic? I can't imagine an MD making someone afraid of food. You need to elaborate a bit more. 


Are you talking about a licensed MD, a psychiatrist, or a quack nutritionist? Something seems off here...

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Changing Doctors is not always easy. And there is no quarantee, that the next one could be worse.

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Great if you have someone to cook for you. It is very difficult for me to for long periods .Just every Doctor have conflicting do's and don't's.