I think I have a form of PSTD - Page 5

goldensrbest · ‎03-10-2010

Stop being affarid of what could go wrong,and be postive of what could go right!!!!!!

When you lose some one you L~O~V~E, that Memory of them, becomes a TREASURE.

I am still oxox · ‎03-09-2010

I was looking for comfort, we have 5 flashlights, all that are self cranking and do not need batteries and a huge lantern and a small light with a fan we are very equipped.

That is not the part that worries me, I can not explain anything more it is just a helpless feeling and I am sorry if you do not understand

@GenXmuse wrote:
I get the feeling she doesn't want any practical responses as she hasn't said thank you or replied to any suggestions or done anything of the things mentioned.
But I'm getting a lot of great tips!

Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being positive what could go right.

Group 5 minus 1 · ‎03-11-2010

We live way back in the woods,you see,and frequently get power outages. For that reason we bought a Generac. If you live in an apartment you would be able to have a Generac,but if you are that afraid you must prepare. Good preparation will help you w/your fears.

Try Googling and see what is said.

GenXmuse · ‎05-15-2016

@I am still oxox wrote:
@GenXmuse

I was looking for comfort, we have 5 flashlights, all that are self cranking and do not need batteries and a huge lantern and a small light with a fan we are very equipped.
That is not the part that worries me, I can not explain anything more it is just a helpless feeling and I am sorry if you do not understand

@GenXmuse wrote:
I get the feeling she doesn't want any practical responses as she hasn't said thank you or replied to any suggestions or done anything of the things mentioned.
But I'm getting a lot of great tips!

That sounds rather ungrateful when people have tried to help. You haven't replied to anyone BUT me. Do you have a counselor? Can you do zoom therapy, maybe talk to your doctor about handling your anxiety. This must be very difficult for you and your family. i think developing some emotional fortitude would make you feel more confident in your ability to handle things.

Gratitude and thinking of others would be a positive step towards realizing the world doesn't revolve around you. Look around you on the board.

ECBG · ‎01-08-2011

You might find some comfort with a heavy duty flashlight in each room. I'd look at Sams, Costco, or Amazon.

noodleann · ‎06-10-2015

@I am still oxox wrote:
@GenXmuse

I was looking for comfort, we have 5 flashlights, all that are self cranking and do not need batteries and a huge lantern and a small light with a fan we are very equipped.
That is not the part that worries me, I can not explain anything more it is just a helpless feeling and I am sorry if you do not understand

@GenXmuse wrote:
I get the feeling she doesn't want any practical responses as she hasn't said thank you or replied to any suggestions or done anything of the things mentioned.
But I'm getting a lot of great tips!

This forum seems more geared to actionable matters. The OP's needs might be better met in "Among Friends." The mood there is generally sweet and tender.

chickenbutt · ‎03-09-2010

Well, today, I can commiserate with losing power. Last night, early evening, our power went out and was out until after midnight.

I hate to complain, as our power seldom goes out and usually it's not out for long at all. But when it goes out at night time and/or during the summer, it's awful. I cannot lie in bed at night with no tv to help me fall asleep (I turn on the tv timer). Plus, it's too hot.

We do have a plethora of flashlights, lanterns (battery op), etc, so the light part isn't bad. But also I have a little fan that uses batteries or if you want you can plug it in, if there is power. This was the first time I used it and it was really great.

Needless to say, I didn't sleep much but I was so glad when I woke up one of the times a little after 1am and the power was back on!

chickenbutt · ‎03-09-2010

@noodleann wrote:

This forum seems more geared to actionable matters. The OP's needs might be better met in "Among Friends." The mood there is generally sweet and tender.

Yeah, I generally don't even come here to vent or anything like that. Too many who just show up to tear ya down. If I feel the need for any of that I either just talk to people I know well and are friends, or another board where pretty much everybody is a grown up and there aren't those who have a need to tear people down and step on them while they're there. It's just not worth it.

manny2 · ‎05-24-2010

That is why you shouldn't respond to a post that involves a mental health issue @Lipstickdiva. PTSD can be triggered by any event, and the person has no control over the feelings it evokes.

Kind reassuring words, and actions help. Your post did not offer that, so next time educate yourself on the subject first, or ask questions so you have a baseline knowledge before you respond.

manny2 · ‎05-24-2010

@GenXmuse wrote:
@I am still oxox wrote:
@GenXmuse

I was looking for comfort, we have 5 flashlights, all that are self cranking and do not need batteries and a huge lantern and a small light with a fan we are very equipped.
That is not the part that worries me, I can not explain anything more it is just a helpless feeling and I am sorry if you do not understand

@GenXmuse wrote:
I get the feeling she doesn't want any practical responses as she hasn't said thank you or replied to any suggestions or done anything of the things mentioned.
But I'm getting a lot of great tips!

@I am still oxox wrote:
@GenXmuse

I was looking for comfort, we have 5 flashlights, all that are self cranking and do not need batteries and a huge lantern and a small light with a fan we are very equipped.
That is not the part that worries me, I can not explain anything more it is just a helpless feeling and I am sorry if you do not understand

@GenXmuse wrote:
I get the feeling she doesn't want any practical responses as she hasn't said thank you or replied to any suggestions or done anything of the things mentioned.
But I'm getting a lot of great tips!

That sounds rather ungrateful when people have tried to help. You haven't replied to anyone BUT me. Do you have a counselor? Can you do zoom therapy, maybe talk to your doctor about handling your anxiety. This must be very difficult for you and your family. i think developing some emotional fortitude would make you feel more confident in your ability to handle things.

Gratitude and thinking of others would be a positive step towards realizing the world doesn't revolve around you. Look around you on the board.

@GenXmuse Telling someone in crisis they are ungrateful, and that the world doesn't revolve around them is unbelievable to me. I feel for the people around you.