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Good Morning doobdoo,

I am also grateful that QVC took the time to email communicate with me, read the entire Grief Journey thread along with my personal request that it be re-opened for commentary member participation.

Their email reply to me thanking me and granting my request for their approval and enactment of reopening this thread and allowing new comments to be posted and shared.

The QVC representatives I email interacted with all agreed this Delayed Grief thread does hold an extraordinary amount of shared grief member experiences, miracles encountered, proven medical, clinical, scientific, and religious well documented information, all pertaining to QVC member Grief Journey experiences.

They also felt many had given much of their personal time and contributed an extraordinary amount of information and shared support so they stated if it received continued activity, it would remain active again for one year, and then if closed for further comments again, I should again contact QVC and again request it be re-opened.

(God willing if I am still on this Earth I shall, if not then I hope another member will, because this thread is too important, and offers others in much need of emotional assistance who may experience great torment and anguish when losing a loved one).

They need to be able to reach out day and night, and interact by reading, posting their feelings, and receiving our comfort, knowledge, wisdom, and member shared support, as to not feel they lost everything, including their reason for living.

My dear friend doobdoo it is always wonderful to interact with you, and others especially on this Delayed Grief thread.

We certainly have learned a lot from each other while experiencing everything in our own various grief journeys, and it always helped to comfort and share our experiences with each others especially on this one dedicated thread.

After we have come to acceptance and begin to move on in life and rebuild to strengthen our minds and bodies, I know everyone will come back and still visit this thread, just to advise how they are coming along. One never forgets their true cyber pals here.

Many thanks for your wonderful contributions doobdoo, relative to what we experience, and the information which has enabled us to share and continue forward with hope, knowing our loved ones we miss so much just went a little ahead, and are now watching over us until we reunite again.

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Thanks, bigsister and adoreqvc. I've learned so much from other posters and try to share what I've learned. As I said, we're going to see differences and similarities, and we can benefit from it all in my opinion.

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deleted my post - sorry, not a good idea after all.

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I read your reply doobdoo, and ITA as we can benefit from sharing everything, and thank you for posting it.


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I hoped others who lost loved ones, relatives, friends, and neighbors to 9/11, would have come to share their feelings and get additional support from many of us.

Perhaps some memories are just too painful to share, but I did read another thread which spoke of the experiences many shared on that day.

I hope everyone can eventually find some sort of inner peace from this terrorist attack on innocent people.

I can see the Trade center often and the new building is striking, but I would have preferred if they left it a sacred memorial ground since so many died and were never recovered.

Life is so precious so we must live each moment and cherish it, and also cherish our memories, because after it is all said and done the only thing we take with us as we begin our own journey from one plane of existence into the everlasting, is the love of our loved ones left behind who will miss us and grieve, and our cherished memories which shall always be a part of our eternal soul.


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On 9/12/2014 adoreqvc said:

I hoped others who lost loved ones, relatives, friends, and neighbors to 9/11, would have come to share their feelings and get additional support from many of us.

Perhaps some memories are just too painful to share, but I did read another thread which spoke of the experiences many shared on that day.

I hope everyone can eventually find some sort of inner peace from this terrorist attack on innocent people.

I can see the Trade center often and the new building is striking, but I would have preferred if they left it a sacred memorial ground since so many died and were never recovered.

Life is so precious so we must live each moment and cherish it, and also cherish our memories, because after it is all said and done the only thing we take with us as we begin our own journey from one plane of existence into the everlasting, is the love of our loved ones left behind who will miss us and grieve, and our cherished memories which shall always be a part of our eternal soul.

Such a lovely post, adoreqvc. If you didn't see the thread in Viewpoints, here's the link: September 11, 2001 My personal story

The stories told on that thread are heartbreaking. No matter who or where we were that morning, we were changed forever.

Feeling very sad tonight, but reading some of the encouraging posts is always so helpful.

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On 9/12/2014 focksie said:

deleted my post - sorry, not a good idea after all.

(((focksie))) I read your post earlier today before you removed it. I want to send a big hug, and to ask you to please post with us in whatever way you feel comfortable. If you haven't found a good therapist, or some sort of counselor or supportive group, I do hope you will. I know it's hard, it feels like walking through quicksand, breathing in heavy air, pushing through when we don't want to.

Please, take good care of yourself and know there are those who do care about you, even here on an anonymous forum.

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Dear dooBdoo,


Yes that thread was very sad, and I know the sadness but still cannot speak much of it.


Some sights never leave your memory but remain and can play like a video movie, over and over again.


Many cause horrific nightmares.


Yes it is heartbreaking for many, and no we should never forget, and we won't.


The memories of all who lost their lives due to that horrific terrorist attack will always be blessed and receive prayers.


No we shall never forget, but we must always remember just who was responsible for causing that horrific attack on innocent people both on the ground, and in the air.


I pray this never happens again, and still would have preferred if they made the entire area a memorial with a religious structure with an area set aside for WTC victims with their names also inscribed for all to come and pray for their souls, and for their families.


I know St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church on Cedar Street was a Church we loved and visited often. There was a lovely very old Greek woman in her 80's who used to come ever day and tidy up. That Church was so well cared for, and it used to be a tavern erected in the 1800's before it became St. Nicholas G.O. Church in 1922.


Now the new St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Byzantine church will be erected, and it certainly is long overdue since 2001.


Belowis a link which has photo's of the original Church before the WTC 9/11 terrorist attack and collapse, and what the new St. Nicolas Church will look like when completed.


http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/31/nyregion/st-nicholas-church-destroyed-on-9-11-to-rebuild-with-byza...


I am so looking forward to visiting it.


I miss the people I loved and lost, relatives, some of our fabulous neighbors, and dear friends, as well as wonderful business associates of the WTC ..... all victims of the 9/11 terrorist attack.


I also miss all the old familiars, associated with the Wall Street Financial District.


I miss Wolf's Delicatessen on Broadway, and the Irish pubs we used to frequent. I miss shopping in Alexanders Department Store in the WTC, I miss cocktails and luncheons in the WTC restaurants, and enjoying the cuisine at the Windows Of The World restaurant, and the WTC Observation Deck. I miss it all.


What I will say as the tears stream down my face in remembrance is my husband's happy whistle whenever he used to attend business related meetings in the WTC, stopped echoing for a very long time, after 9/11. "That happy go lucky whistle and the gleam in his eyes died that day, and was replaced for the longest time with a haunted sadness, because many that he respected, liked, and loved were all killed.


What causes animals masquerading as humans to cause such horrific death to so many innocent people?


The Koran does not condone the taking of any life, so when these terrorists commit these acts of murder and destruction and say the words in the name of Mohammed, and in the name of Allah, they are lying, and the ones they are lying to the most is themselves.


They will never enter into Paradise and everlasting life, but burn in the lake of h*ell fire for eternity, and even that is too little a fate to suffer for all they killed, and the destruction they enacted, just for the sake of hatred for anyone who is not of their religious fanatical beliefs.


They are sick fanatics and extremists who must be weeded out, and dealt with swiftly. They are the cancer of the earth.


I cannot stop crying now but I will say I hope we all feel better very soon as 9/11 remembrance every year makes me feel so sad, and quite heart sick, as I am sure it does to others my dear kind sweet friend.


May God grant us all some inner peace to deal with this sacred remembrance every year, and keep the light burning brightly for continued freedom.


DooBdoo we all must ensure that everyone from this generation and future generations never forget.

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Dear focksie,

This grief thread was enacted to help everyone who needs support, friendship, advice, and is also here and was re-opened by QVC at my email request, because the information contained within is so valuable to anyone entering a grief journey, or reliving a death experience of loved ones or friends.

It is here to offer our shared grief journey member experiences, insight, support, other grief journey documentation, and prayers.

I read dooBdoo's replied to you that she read your post. I am so sorry I missed it, so I have no idea what you tried to convey since you deleted it, but if I may take a wild guess I think it may have been related to 9/11? Of course I could be incorrect.

Please Focksie even if you do not want to post again about what you originally posted of, please post about anything.

Please do come back and join in, because if you do not return, then I will personally feel as though we have all failed in some way to offer support to those in need on this Delayed Grief thread.

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It's that time again.

As promised I said I would update when we were ready to resume our travels abroad again.

I see this delayed grief thread is inactive again, but I just hope if activity starts someone will check periodically, to ensure anyone needing comfort and support, will find a cyber friend and comforting shoulder to lean on, as they walk their grief journey and learn from others.

I hope this thread remains and will not again appear only to be a read with the commentary closed, as it definitely has very insightful information, personal experiences, some miracles, and much caring, comfort, and wisdom also sprinkled throughout.

I asked QVC to re-enable it again with comments allowed and they also felt it was a very valuable thread to again become totally active to help others.........but they did say if inactivity resumed again it would again be closed off to new comments, unless I or someone else requested it to be allowed to remain active once again.

I hope it will remain active...

I wish everyone all the best, and no matter where our foot steps lead us, please know all my QVC pals will remain in our daily thoughts and prayers.

So long for now, and we wish everyone God's safety and blessings.