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[ANewHue]

@Karnerblue. Been thinking about you and just wanted to give you a shout to say Hi and hope all is well.  I understand .

[bebe777]

beaches ( @ANewHue ), thank you for starting this thread.

@Karnerblue, I hope you are feeling better. And remember, the Wen forum is always a safe place to relax and chat for a while.

-- bebe

[Karnerblue]

@ANewHue @bebe777, thank you both my friends for thinking of me.  You're very sweet and just seeing your message made me smile. 

Having a very difficult time right now.  Very upset about my Dad who is nearing the end.  He was taken to the hospital a couple weeks ago, he is now home in a hospital bed and they've called Hospice in.  I can't do anything to help him and my heart is aching. 

[ANewHue]

@Karnerblue  I am SO sorry to hear about your Dad, my heart goes out to you.  I hope you have someone to support you during this trying time,  I've been thinking about you and looking out for you but I thought you just took a break which would have been totally understandable.

i am glad our post brought you a smile.  Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers, and please if you have time check in with us at Wen. ❤️😉

[Karnerblue]

@ANewHue your messages means so much to me.  I really have no support right now.  There's so much sibling stuff going on and I don't even feel a part of things.  My sisters went to the funeral home and didn't even include me.  It's just all too much.  I try to go visit when no one is there and it's quiet.  That's what my Dad liked -- peace and quiet.  I have my memories of our fishing trips to the lake and it was just him and I and we'd spend hours fishing and talking.  I just want my poor Dad to be at peace.  I don't want to get involved in the "who is executor and who is health proxy" thing.  It sickens me.  There are six of us, but I feel like I don't belong.

[ANewHue]

@Karnerblue I am so glad I reached out to you tonight.  I am so sorry to hear what you are dealing with.  It brought back memories of when my father passed, I was alone with him at the time. Even though it was just a few at his bedside he waited until we were alone.  It's so hard to see someone you love suffer and then have to deal with others who have their minds on different things.  Please know you will be in my constant thoughts and you have true friends here that do care.  I've learned quite recently that things come to us when we are in need from unexpected places. I keep my faith and I know it gets me through my hardest days.  Someone is watching over you and know you are not alone.  No matter how hard it is know you will be okay. Stay strong , we are all stronger than we truly know . Reach out if you need an ear, we'll be looking out for you. 

[Karnerblue]

@ANewHue, at my sister's wedding many years ago, my Dad and I danced to the song "Someone To Watch Over Me," and he sang along to it.  I have not thought about that song in years, but this past week it's all I can think about.  And now I know why. 

[ANewHue]

@Karnerblue  He'll always be with you.  Listen to this, on New Years I had the Q on and was walking through the room and as I looked at the tv they did a 2 minute special on a Scott Kay piece named guardian angel, it is a design of wings.  So I grabbed the IPad to order it and it went on waitlist and it said the order would be held only until 2/14.  I really didn't think it would be filled well I just checked and it's in process.   It may sound silly, but I take this as a sign.  Hugs to you.

[bebe777]

@Karnerblue, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad's condition and complicated situation surrounding all the decisions that need to be made. My heart goes out to you for all that you are going through right now and I'm sending out positive energy yo you, your dad and your family. -- bebe 

[3cupcakes]

@Karnerblue Sending you a big, big hug to get you thru the days ahead.

@ANewHue Thank you for this thread.