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@Sooner wrote:

@San Antonio Gal wrote:

@vsm wrote:


This a fashion/taste/style forum, for heaven's sake.  Comments are always going to focus on what's being worn, by whom, and how well.  Opinions will vary, sometimes widely.  People who choose to be offended by the subject matter are free to say so, but not to censor.  It's called "diversity."


Agree with you 100% @vsm .   This is a fashion forum and comments about fit is NOT body shaming.  Geez.


@San Antonio Gal Although comments about fit are easily turned into body shaming  and the intent is evident when that is the case.


 

 I am so glad someone gets it. @Sooner  I do not understand why anyone thinks they have a right to vocalize an opinion about someone’s body. There is no justification for it.

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@manny2 wrote:

@vsm wrote:

@manny2 wrote:

Any comments about body shape, or what you think is unflattering on someone is starting to muddy the waters. That is called body shaming, and it is not OK. 

 

 


It is not "body shaming" to acknowledge that an article of clothing is ill-fitting.


Who gives you the right to decide what looks good on another person? I do not get the rational here. You can think what you want, just keep it to yourself. @vsm 

 

Why don't you get it? Words hurt. 

 

 

 

 


This is an opinion forum on fashion and how various cuts, styles, patterns, and colors look on people with different body types. (This should not have to be explained to a rational adult.)  Your opinion matters no more than anyone else's. You're free to self-censor, but not free to censor others.  If points of view that disagree with yours "hurt" you, then perhaps you should avoid opinion forums. and join an echo chamber. 

 

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nope, you cannot justify tearing a person down.    

 

i see many posts trying to justify it....oh it's a opinion....oh it's an opinion forum......oh...oh...oh

 

 

really?   you think it's ok to do this to another human being..........it is not ok.

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@manny2 wrote:

@green girl wrote:
Same !!!
It's not body shaming to say put on a bigger size ! It is about the shirt and the way it fits.

You don't get it either @green girl . It's really not a difficult concept. 


@manny2 so much virtue signaling. One in every crowd.      SMH

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@manny2 wrote:

@Sooner wrote:

@San Antonio Gal wrote:

@vsm wrote:


This a fashion/taste/style forum, for heaven's sake.  Comments are always going to focus on what's being worn, by whom, and how well.  Opinions will vary, sometimes widely.  People who choose to be offended by the subject matter are free to say so, but not to censor.  It's called "diversity."


Agree with you 100% @vsm .   This is a fashion forum and comments about fit is NOT body shaming.  Geez.


@San Antonio Gal Although comments about fit are easily turned into body shaming  and the intent is evident when that is the case.


 

 I am so glad someone gets it. @Sooner  I do not understand why anyone thinks they have a right to vocalize an opinion about someone’s body. There is no justification for it.


We are entitled to comment on anything we feel. It's called freedom of speech. Stop scolding people!!!!!

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@staciesmom wrote:

@manny2 wrote:

@Sooner wrote:

@San Antonio Gal wrote:

@vsm wrote:


This a fashion/taste/style forum, for heaven's sake.  Comments are always going to focus on what's being worn, by whom, and how well.  Opinions will vary, sometimes widely.  People who choose to be offended by the subject matter are free to say so, but not to censor.  It's called "diversity."


Agree with you 100% @vsm .   This is a fashion forum and comments about fit is NOT body shaming.  Geez.


@San Antonio Gal Although comments about fit are easily turned into body shaming  and the intent is evident when that is the case.


 

 I am so glad someone gets it. @Sooner  I do not understand why anyone thinks they have a right to vocalize an opinion about someone’s body. There is no justification for it.


We are entitled to comment on anything we feel. It's called freedom of speech. Stop scolding people!!!!!


 

freedom of speech has nothing to do with posting in this forum.   google is your friend.

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@TheMemphisVette wrote:

@staciesmom wrote:

@manny2 wrote:

@Sooner wrote:

@San Antonio Gal wrote:

@vsm wrote:


This a fashion/taste/style forum, for heaven's sake.  Comments are always going to focus on what's being worn, by whom, and how well.  Opinions will vary, sometimes widely.  People who choose to be offended by the subject matter are free to say so, but not to censor.  It's called "diversity."


Agree with you 100% @vsm .   This is a fashion forum and comments about fit is NOT body shaming.  Geez.


@San Antonio Gal Although comments about fit are easily turned into body shaming  and the intent is evident when that is the case.


 

 I am so glad someone gets it. @Sooner  I do not understand why anyone thinks they have a right to vocalize an opinion about someone’s body. There is no justification for it.


We are entitled to comment on anything we feel. It's called freedom of speech. Stop scolding people!!!!!


 

freedom of speech has nothing to do with posting in this forum.   google is your friend.

 

 

So your opinion is the only one that counts? Forums are for posting views. Stop scolding!


 

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your scolding about scolding is priceless

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@staciesmom wrote:

@manny2 wrote:

@Sooner wrote:

@San Antonio Gal wrote:

@vsm wrote:


This a fashion/taste/style forum, for heaven's sake.  Comments are always going to focus on what's being worn, by whom, and how well.  Opinions will vary, sometimes widely.  People who choose to be offended by the subject matter are free to say so, but not to censor.  It's called "diversity."


Agree with you 100% @vsm .   This is a fashion forum and comments about fit is NOT body shaming.  Geez.


@San Antonio Gal Although comments about fit are easily turned into body shaming  and the intent is evident when that is the case.


 

 I am so glad someone gets it. @Sooner  I do not understand why anyone thinks they have a right to vocalize an opinion about someone’s body. There is no justification for it.


We are entitled to comment on anything we feel. It's called freedom of speech. Stop scolding people!!!!!


Interesting @staciesmom  stop scolding, and then you scold! 

 

I don't need your approval to post.  Don't read it problem solved.

 

 

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@vsm wrote:

@manny2 wrote:

@vsm wrote:

@manny2 wrote:

Any comments about body shape, or what you think is unflattering on someone is starting to muddy the waters. That is called body shaming, and it is not OK. 

 

 


It is not "body shaming" to acknowledge that an article of clothing is ill-fitting.


Who gives you the right to decide what looks good on another person? I do not get the rational here. You can think what you want, just keep it to yourself. @vsm 

 

Why don't you get it? Words hurt. 

 

 

 

 


This is an opinion forum on fashion and how various cuts, styles, patterns, and colors look on people with different body types. (This should not have to be explained to a rational adult.)  Your opinion matters no more than anyone else's. You're free to self-censor, but not free to censor others.  If points of view that disagree with yours "hurt" you, then perhaps you should avoid opinion forums. and join an echo chamber. 

 


@vsm Your post makes no sense at all.