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Re: MAFS (NO SPOILERS) BOSTON- Jan. 2022


@ciao_bella wrote:

The more I watch Jasmina the less respect I have for her.  She's so concerned about 'respect' from Michael, but what about her respect for him?  Last night, when he was trying to talk to her about maybe writing down her feeling in a journal, she immediately dismissed the idea in her 'lecturing tone of voice' when he tried to talk about it, and as he was speaking, she turned her head, not once but twice, and rolled her eyes.  What a disrespectul, self-serving, know it all who wants her way about everything!   I think Michael has shown a great deal of restraint and respect dealing with her attitude.   

Lindsey was calmer last night but has such a raw crudeness about her that most men could not deal with.  Even when Dr. Viv called her out about being rude, she tried to turn it around so as not to make it sound the way it was intended.  The question here for Mark is:  can the caring nurturing side of her supercede the crude, obnoxious mouth and wild never know how she'll act side?  I doubt it.  Living with her is like tip-toeing in a mine field. 

 

"O" still doesn't get it no matter how much Dr. Viv tried to point out that cooking and cleaning is not what you base your marriage on.  He's always going to expect that from his wife, as he thinks those are 'wifely duties' and he's the man of the house!!! Haha  I hope Katina truly see this or she will be brow beaten into a lot more insecurities than she already admits to having.  

 

Noi and Steve, I don't know what to say.  He's a nice guy but he also wants to lead a life like he's had as a single and doesn't seem to want to commit to any change in his job status within the marriage.  There will be endless arguments over this, so I say best to part ways and wish each other the best.  

 

Sadly, I don't see any of these couples making it long term. 
  


@ciao_bella , you saved me from posting what I am thinking.  I agree with you 100%.

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This is probably a strange observation on my part but it never stopped me from posting before (oh no now @Mmsfoxxie has worn off on me :-) )

Regarding Noi and Steve and the little game(s) they were given to play..uhhh What person does not know how to do bodyshots (Noi said she has never, ever done them) and yet when it comes to her answering a question about some desire she had (i'm really not sure how this game went) but she replied "I would like for us to have sex in a semi-public place." okay. I might be a prude but she surprised me by saying that "yes it might turn her on" to the question .."'How would you react to your partner viewing porn, how would you handle it?" She was all in.

Also I've heard of a drink called a fuzzynavel but OMG poor Katina took it to a new level by pouring a shot in Olajuwon's bellybutton/navel..ICK! just gross! No way would you get me to inhale his bodily fluids with that gesture..

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@Mmsfoxxie wrote:

@TurnerGal, I can't stand Jasmina either.  She thinks her 💩 doesn't stink, lol.  But, regarding the journaling, Dr. Viviana was speaking to Michael about journaling his thoughts, not Jasmina.  But, as Michael said, they both need to do it.

 

Hopefully we're allowed to mention the show Afterparty on here??  Last night Lindsey, who's been on there more than anybody mentioned that Alyssa and Mark were texting (or DMing) each other and that Alyssa sometimes came to hangout on the rooftop with them.  Olajuwon confirmed it.  Say what?  She shouldn't be allowed to hang out with them.  Thought she was banished.  IMO, that's a kick into Chris's face.  So she visiting this cast and speaking to cast member from last season, Ryan.  Anybody but Chris, I guess.


@Mmsfoxxie , after watching the Afterpary, IMO, Alyssa should NOT be allowed in the building.  She's off the show.

 

As for Mark DMing her without Lindsey's knowledge, that is very wrong.  Mark's trying to play the "I want to get along with everyone" thing.  Going behind Lindsey's back and not talking to her about that before he does is wrong.  If he does that behind her back, how can she trust him?   That would be the end of the relationship if it were me.

 

The "sex games" were beyond ridiculous.  This season is terrible IMO.

 

As for Jasmina?  She sure does like to dish it out, but can't take it.  All she does is roll her eyes and won't let Michael finish a sentence.  If I were him, I'd not even try to talk to her.  It's HER way and that's it.

 

Noi/Steve, Katina/Ola - maybe they'll stay together for DD; however, I don't see it lasting for either couple.  JMO.

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 I watched this last night before I went to bed and the aftershow.  I totally forgot about the Allysa conversation.  They show that preview for next week where "O" looses it because of something on Katia's phone (I guess they want us to think it's from a guy), maybe he sees a text from Allysa and that is why he get's so mad.  He really didn't like Allysa. 

 

Some one above said they could see Allysa and Jasmine bonding over how they didn't get a fair deal and didn't get a good guy.  I could see the two of them bonding over that. 

 

I agree that Lyndsey has been on the after show a lot.  I wonder when they film the after show compared to the actual shooting of the show.  I think it would be hard to be on there if it is filmed months after and try not to slip and let current information out.

 

The other thing that bugged me was "O' saying Katia work's from home and he doesn't think she works.  Because she is probably working and not cleaning the house and cooking it's a problem.  Maybe "O" should get together with Steve and Steve can be a house husband for "O".

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Re: MAFS (NO SPOILERS) BOSTON- Jan. 2022

gypsyvanner....I think that next week a secret that Olajon (sp?)has been hiding will be revealed.

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@game-on wrote:

gypsyvanner....I think that next week a secret that Olajon (sp?)has been hiding will be revealed.


@game-on  I was waiting to hear back from you.. Can you put it in a spoiler on here..Inquiring minds want to know..Just click on that "yellowish looking" icon above that's the 5th from the left side (it's right after the   [ strikethrough icon] 

 

PS Please don't tell me that Olajuwon was a priest (His Mother is Irish Catholic) and attended the seminary as part of his college degree, paid his seminary loans back, his Godly credit score allowed him to get a low interest loan to mortgage his man cave , he decided being celibate wasn't for him, when all the "chicks " at the grocery store were flocking to be near him (was probably the cassock and starched collar), so he up and ditched the priesthood, became a player and the rest is history.. He was known early on as just Father Dickerson, Or Pastor  O. A. Isaac to his friends..

Edited to add: this might explain some of his archaic ideas about "what a woman means to him" a person that basically serves her master as a domestic. 

I better not continue with this fantasy explanation for Olajuwon because now he's making me madder and madder at him. I think he's actually the devil incarnate, not anything saintly about him. 

flash forward to reality! 

 

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I am still disgusted with O's tirades against his wife from the week before!  Viviania did confront him on a lot of his b.s. about his archaic and ridiculous views on what he expected from his wife, but I don't understand why she did not call him out on his totally out of line remarks and tirades - something about him showing Katyna what she needed to know about being a real woman!  Then, Katyna, whether it was just for t.v. or what, basically bowing down to him and acting subservient to him.  If she really is going to act like this, then she deserves what she gets!

 

As for this stuff about Alyssa dm'ing Mark?  I wasn't sure I heard correctly.  Why is this happening?  And it seems like Mark was being sneaky about it.  If I were Lindsey, I'd be so p.o.'d about it and if this is Mark's way of building trust in his marriage ---- nah, no way!  No way would I put up with that garbage!  If he's going to keep on with this kind of stuff, I'd kick him to the curb and fast!  That Alyssa is nothing but trouble --- pure and simple.  She needs to butt out and get a life!  

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@AngelPuppy1 quoting your previous post today//As for this stuff about Alyssa dm'ing Mark?  I wasn't sure I heard correctly.  Why is this happening?  And it seems like Mark was being sneaky about it.  If I were Lindsey, I'd be so p.o.'d about it and if this is Mark's way of building trust in his marriage ---- nah, no way!  No way would I put up with that garbage!  If he's going to keep on with this kind of stuff, I'd kick him to the curb and fast!  That Alyssa is nothing but trouble --- pure and simple.  She needs to butt out and get a life!  //unquote

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Yes I'm confused about what was said at the AfterParty as well by both Lindsey with Olajuwon confirming Alyssa's antics. They said she is also physically hanging around the apartments and on the roof where it sounds like they can avoid the cameras to talk.why?

 ALSO: I was curious about these apartments so I did some super sleuthing..Here goes>

 They are not in downtown Boston, nope not even really close by as they are a 20 minute drive ( on a light traffic day) on the North Shore in a town called Revere. These are new apartments, built in the Spring of 2021, and these couples are supposedly the first tenants..They start at 3K a month, with a incentive plan of $1,500 off for the first month, with a deposit of course. You could see a shot of the  Atlantic Ocean out of one couples apartment windows, and they are near  some train tracks.. 

When (on another forum) Lindsey mentioned Mark's life was falling apart, and he had no place to go after these 8 weeks, there was a suggestion that they are allowed to continue to rent these apartments if they choose to..Depending on where Mark works and his financial situation, I'm wondering if he even would consider this place? Lindsey did say in her rant (the bowling blowup) that she was going back to her place in South Boston, not North Shore Boston..so that's that I guess..Happily ever after,,NOT!

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@GypsyVanner wrote:

@AngelPuppy1 quoting your previous post today//As for this stuff about Alyssa dm'ing Mark?  I wasn't sure I heard correctly.  Why is this happening?  And it seems like Mark was being sneaky about it.  If I were Lindsey, I'd be so p.o.'d about it and if this is Mark's way of building trust in his marriage ---- nah, no way!  No way would I put up with that garbage!  If he's going to keep on with this kind of stuff, I'd kick him to the curb and fast!  That Alyssa is nothing but trouble --- pure and simple.  She needs to butt out and get a life!  //unquote

 

Yes I'm confused about what was said at the AfterParty as well by both Lindsey with Olajuwon confirming Alyssa's antics. They said she is also physically hanging around the apartments and on the roof where it sounds like they can avoid the cameras to talk.why?

 ALSO: I was curious about these apartments so I did some super sleuthing..Here goes>

 They are not in downtown Boston, nope not even really close by as they are a 20 minute drive ( on a light traffic day) on the North Shore in a town called Revere. These are new apartments, built in the Spring of 2021, and these couples are supposedly the first tenants..They start at 3K a month, with a incentive plan of $1,500 off for the first month, with a deposit of course. You could see a shot of the  Atlantic Ocean out of one couples apartments and they are near  some train tracks.. 

When (on another forum) Lindsey mentioned Mark's life was falling apart, and he had no place to go after these 8 weeks, there was a suggestion that they are allowed to continue to rent these apartments if they choose to..Depending on where Mark works and his financial situation, I'm wondering if he even would consider this place? Lindsey did say in her rant (the bowling blowup) that she was going back to her place in South Boston, not North Shore Boston..so that's that I guess..Happily ever after,,NOT!


 

When Lindsey was on her rant she also said he made $60K a year so he really wouldn't be able to affort this apartment on his own.

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Hahahaha!  @GypsyVanner, good comedic writing.


@GypsyVanner wrote:

@game-on wrote:

gypsyvanner....I think that next week a secret that Olajon (sp?)has been hiding will be revealed.


@game-on  I was waiting to hear back from you.. Can you put it in a spoiler on here..Inquiring minds want to know..Just click on that "yellowish looking" icon above that's the 5th from the left side (it's right after the   [ strikethrough icon] 

 

PS Please don't tell me that Olajuwon was a priest (His Mother is Irish Catholic) and attended the seminary as part of his college degree, paid his seminary loans back, his Godly credit score allowed him to get a low interest loan to mortgage his man cave , he decided being celibate wasn't for him, when all the "chicks " at the grocery store were flocking to be near him (was probably the cassock and starched collar), so he up and ditched the priesthood, became a player and the rest is history.. He was known early on as just Father Dickerson, Or Pastor  O. A. Isaac to his friends..

Edited to add: this might explain some of his archaic ideas about "what a woman means to him" a person that basically serves her master as a domestic. 

I better not continue with this fantasy explanation for Olajuwon because now he's making me madder and madder at him. I think he's actually the devil incarnate, not anything saintly about him. 

flash forward to reality! 

 


 

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