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It's probably a "showmance," like plenty of those reality show couples. They all have to look the part that they're "assigned." Would they choose those outfits when the cameras are off? Maybe, maybe not.
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@Saffron1 wrote:

@SportyShorty07.  I do have the feeling TJ is a safe placeholder for Stacey until her divorce is final.
Also at Wendy's party, he was irritated that Stacey dared to leave his side and it struck me that he was ticked off because the cameras stayed with Stacey and not him.


@Saffron1  Excellent points 😁! I think that TJ is a safe place holder too- she doesn't have to worry about infidelity while going through a divorce since TJ is celibate. That scene during Wendy's party was so strange.  TJ was talking to Karen's husband by the pool for a while about retro laptops and computers and then he had the nerve to make Stacy think that she was ignoring him?!  TJ is in his 40's- he should know how to socialize and move around a party to chat with different people- and he should be attentive to Stacy since she's his date.

 

    I think that TJ enjoys being on  RHWOP for the screentime, but dislikes Stacy's realistic and normal requests for affection and romance.  TJ tells her he's waiting for marriage to have sex and he has also told her multiple times that he will never sleep with her- which tells me that he'll never marry her either.  I liked TJ as a QVC host, I thought that he was kind and fun- but he's coming off as very uptight and dismissive on this show.  

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@San Antonio Gal wrote:

@Saffron1 wrote:

@SportyShorty07.  I do have the feeling TJ is a safe placeholder for Stacey until her divorce is final.
Also at Wendy's party, he was irritated that Stacey dared to leave his side and it struck me that he was ticked off because the cameras stayed with Stacey and not him.


@Saffron1  -  Wow - not a good sign that TJ got mad that Stacey didn't stick to him like glue at the party.  Then he doesn't like the fact that the cameras followed her and not him?? 

 

I don't know why she sticks with TJ.  The whole celibate situation and now he's starting to sound a bit controlling.  She needs to play the field as soon as her divorce is final.  Don't you think so  @SportyShorty07 .


@San Antonio Gal  Excellent points 😁! I completely agree- and Stacy should play the field as soon as her divorce is final. To each their own, but I could not date a celibate guy- I am a passionate lady and I need romance, affection and passion with a boyfriend and a future husband. TJ might be better off dating a girl from his church who also shares his same beliefs about celibacy until marriage. Stacy is religious, but the celibacy in her current relationship is all TJ's choice. 

 

     I don't want Stacy to put all of her eggs in one basket with TJ.  My issue with TJ is that he doesn't seem to want to kiss her, hold her, or do anything remotely flirtatious or romantic with her while still honoring his celibabcy.  What are they if he's so averse to even the slightest display of intimacy or romance? She calls him a good friend, but I think that he isn't very kind or friendly to her.   I wish Stacy and TJ well, but she needs to keep her options open. 

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TJ seems a bit uptight to me. He became defensive when Stacy asked him about how pretty the centerpiece flowers were at the dinner. He said that it was a girl question. Why would that question bother him.

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@lgfan wrote:
TJ seems a bit uptight to me. He became defensive when Stacy asked him about how pretty the centerpiece flowers were at the dinner. He said that it was a girl question. Why would that question bother him.

@lgfan  That was really strange too 😅.  He seemed so catty in that scene when he said, "Get you hands off of me! That's a girl question!" He could've said, "Yes, the flowers are nice."  Stacy would've had a great time at Wendy's party if she had another guy as a date. TJ needs to chill out. 

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@SportyShorty07   it seems pre-scripted to me. I don't think T.J. has a mean bone in his body and this series certainly seems out of place for him. I bet they need some in fighting and its all staged, like most reality shows. He is prob laughing at all us viewers behind the scenes. It seems forced and I wonder how long they both will last on the show. 

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@QVCTVSpree  Interesting! I keep forgetting that a lot of reality shows are scripted.  He is an actor after all 😄😉.

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@SportyShorty07  I am enjoying reading these Posts and I always thought that these shows are scripted. I've never seen one. In fact, the last Realty Show I've watched was American idol and stopped watching after my favorite Carrie Underwood won.

 

From what some have written now and before, TJ is a good guy so why all of a sudden he's changed. It just makes him look bad but he's getting paid. I don't think that people believe what they are seeing and hearing on Reality Shows, or maybe some do.

 

 

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@SportyShorty07 wrote:

@QVCTVSpree  Interesting! I keep forgetting that a lot of reality shows are scripted.  He is an actor after all 😄😉.

 

 

@SportyShorty07  is he a good actor? What do you think?


 

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@SportyShorty07 wrote:

@QVCTVSpree  Interesting! I keep forgetting that a lot of reality shows are scripted.  He is an actor after all 😄😉.

 

 

@SportyShorty07  is he a good actor? What do you think?


 


@Sage04  That's a good question- I've only seen him in small roles on Sister Sister, so I can't really figure out if he's a good actor or not 🤔. I can't picture him in a sexy thriler or an action movie.