I was not suggesting rainbows and roses. Some commentary is fair, constructive criticism is fair. Personal attacks on appearance should be out of limits.
To the people that stated: "the moderators will take down the posts" is not assuming any personal responsibility or agency.
Analogy: I could drive at high speed breaking the law and maybe will stop once I recieve a ticket. I am still driving recklessly. The comments are still often unkind and should not need the moderators to step in.
Maybe those that feel free to say what they want should consider if they would make this statement to the hosts if they were in person.
I am not a delicate flower, not clutching my pearls, not handwringing as was suggested. I am a fan of common decency and courtesy. And, do not choose to hide behind the anonimity of these boards to say what I want.
My final comment: Too often women tear other women down. We should lift each other up and support one another. I assume that most that comment are women.