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[Lyn08]

Unfortunately, the kitten did not work out for me.  Friends tried to discourage me from getting a kitten, but I thought I could handle it.  She was just too energetic for me (I'm retired and have some disabilities).  She's at a good home now, with kids and another cat.  They can definitely keep her occupied.

I'm going to wait until spring, and then I'll check out the local animal shelters for an adult cat, that's easy-going and mild mannered.  I know I can take care of a cat and love it, but, unfortunately, this kitten was not right for me.  

I was completely heartbroken that this did not work out for me, but I wanted what was best for her and for me.

[MoJoV]

Lyn08 I'm sorry to hear the kitten didn't work out for you.  Kittens are very energetic and always have to be busy.  There are lots and lots of quiet older adult cats that would love to live with you. To ssnuggle and enjoy life with you. I know you'll find that special one.

[Lyn08]

@MoJoV - Thanks so much, skylark.  I returned a lot of the supplies I bought for her (that hadn't been used).  I also gave a neighbor partially used bags of litter and dry food.  I can always buy this stuff later if and when I bring home an adult cat.  

One of the pet food stores gave me the website names of several local animal rescue groups.  I'll check those out this spring.  I need a calm, mild-mannered adult cat.

[beastielove]

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Lyn08 wrote:

Unfortunately, the kitten did not work out for me.  Friends tried to discourage me from getting a kitten, but I thought I could handle it.  She was just too energetic for me (I'm retired and have some disabilities).  She's at a good home now, with kids and another cat.  They can definitely keep her occupied.

I'm going to wait until spring, and then I'll check out the local animal shelters for an adult cat, that's easy-going and mild mannered.  I know I can take care of a cat and love it, but, unfortunately, this kitten was not right for me.  

I was completely heartbroken that this did not work out for me, but I wanted what was best for her and for me.

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Lyn...

You did the right thing for the kitten by making sure that she wound up in the right home. I'm happy that you're planning on rescuing an adult cat because they still have so much love to give.

Over the years I have rescued several adult kitties.

The oldest was a pair of 12 year old brothers. Their "mommy", who had rescued them as kittens, was very ill and was no longer able to care for them. At the time I had four girls (all rescues) and wasn't planning on adding to the zoo...but I knew that I was their only chance for survival, so I took them in...and never regretted my decision. Tom went to The Bridge 3 months after his 18th birthday and Forrest joined him 8 months later,1 month before he turned 19.

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All of my children have paws =^..^=

[Lyn08]

@beastielove - Thanks for your understanding.  I've been so heartsick, but I know I did the right thing.  I'm retired, and I just don't have the energy for a very active kitty.

In the Spring, I definitely will check out the animal rescue groups (one pet shop gave me several local animal rescue websites).  I can't do anything right now, as I need things to settle down for me a bit.  It's been a very stressful experience for me.

I know I can take care of a cat, as I didn't have any problems with litter box cleaning, playing with the kitten, petting her (she purred so sweetly -- when she was calmed down a bit), feeding her, etc.  I could do those same things for an adult cat, and I'd be able to provide her with a "forever home".  I'll just make sure to explain to the rescue group what I'm looking for (maybe a cat that belonged to an elderly person who had to move to a nursing home).  

[doxie1]

brb

You are still in my prayer angel  and on my  thoughts. My experience with someone else that had these symptms is that they can be managed and when the medication changes you start to feel better. The home pump really helped with the lymphadema as well as the exercises. Do you have anyone with you to help?

The neuropathy was un-nerving and was slow to get better due to the half life BUT improvement was seen quickly. It just did not disappear overnight which is how it seemed to show up.

You are on the high powered medications for a reason. Hopefully on the 5th you will get good results and maybe some of them can be altered.

I sometimes think it takes us a while to realize that God is in control. It is a blessng to have the number 1 specialist in charge.

My relative used a stylus instead of tapping on phone and then used it on the compter as well. We found "the chair that was comfortable other than the lazy boy. She could use that at the computer or table . It is good to have more than one chair to sit in to change pressure points.

Take time each day by yourself and close your eyes. Visualize yourself healthy. Keep telling yourself that you are going to get well.

 I want to suggest 2 things:

For you- If you like to laugh at jokes go to among friends and open the thread called "Friends and doxie" You can go back to the beginning and just read the jokes and laugh. You can stop where ever you want. You do not have to start at the beginning. I think you need something to laugh about when dealing with a serious battle.

For the rest of us-

Let us take some time to post funny stories about us and our pets. They can be old stories. Let us make them the funny ones. Maybe some of our inspirational ones would be good as well. This would give brb something to read and not have to respond to. Maybe we can bring some joy to her.

doxie

[doxie1]

hahahhaah

I know about General Beaureguard Lee. He has been spot on.

doxie

[doxie1]

OMG apple

That is awful. I hope you are better now. That ice is treacherous.

doxie

[doxie1]

Lyn- Sorry it did not work out and glad the kitty got a good home. I agree with mojo that you  may want to someday try an adult one. There are a lot of [laces that will let you foster one as well and that would give you the option to try it.

doxie

[doxie1]

beastie

What an awesome and inspirational story about Tom and Forrest. I am glad you took the risk and that they were able to thank you with their love for so many years.

doxie