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As with JeanLouise, we can agree to disagree.

But the whole wolf data that article claims is based on wolves in captivity.  Wolves in the wild do not have such strict behavior.

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Re: I Just Got a New Dog!

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@GingerPeach wrote:

@RinaRina  I don't know what others are seeing but on my screen, I can't see your new little cutie.  If others see him, no need to make a second effort.  I just wasn't sure what others could see.

 

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RinaRina, I hope your new dog provides you with what you need.  I can not recommend it any stronger, please find a trainer locally that uses postive reinforcement.  You want to build a relationship with your dog not force them in to submission to your will.  A relationship is build on trust and respect not fear and intimidation.

 

The dog was returned to the rescue for a reason, there may be underlying issues that you are not aware of yet.  Someone local will be able to witness the behaviors and give you immediate feedback on how to correct it . It may take some time and and many different "tweeks" to fix things, but take it from someone who has been there it is worth it. Relying on others, espically on the internet, to understand exactly what is happening as well as the many outdated methods still being spread will likely only confuse the issue more and probably not resolve anything.

 

Enjoy the new dog

 

PS you should also take him to your vet for a check-up, rescues and shelters usually only provide basic care, really do not have the funds for much more than that.  SHe should be able to answer any questions concerning his health concerns.

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Re: I Just Got a New Dog!

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My cat is being real nasty.  Her growling is so loud & guttural  sounding, I was unconsciously ignoring her because I thought it was my neigbor's lawn mower.

I'm gonna make an app't w/ the vet tomorrow.  His nails are terribly long & I want her to check his teeth.  My other dog never had bad breath, but this one has "doggie breath".

 

Regarding training -- he's already trained.  He knows the commands and does what I say.  Right now, it's my cat that's acting up.

 

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@RinaRina wrote:

@tends2dogs wrote:

@RinaRinaCongratulations on your new dog!!!  So exciting!  I vote, let him lick!  (as you can tell by my avatar)

 

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Ewwww! I just clicked your avatar.  LOL!  Okay!  Woman LOL


 


tends2dogs, I just clicked your avatar as well -- and I think it's precious!  What a sweet pic of you and your dog.  I kiss my dog full on like that, and his kisses are always welcome on my face!  

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@RinaRina wrote:

My cat is being real nasty.  Her growling is so loud & guttural  sounding, I was unconsciously ignoring her because I thought it was my neigbor's lawn mower.

I'm gonna make an app't w/ the vet tomorrow.  His nails are terribly long & I want her to check his teeth.  My other dog never had bad breath, but this one has "doggie breath".

 

Regarding training -- he's already trained.  He knows the commands and does what I say.  Right now, it's my cat that's acting up.

 


@RinaRina  Eventually the cat and dog will be able to peacefully coexist or the cat will just learn how to avoid the dog, but I bet she's probably a little jealous right now and trying to show him who rules the roost. 

 

Here's an article from the ASPC that you might find interesting too.
Introducing a Cat to a New Dog

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@RinaRina wrote:

My cat is being real nasty.  Her growling is so loud & guttural  sounding, I was unconsciously ignoring her because I thought it was my neigbor's lawn mower.

I'm gonna make an app't w/ the vet tomorrow.  His nails are terribly long & I want her to check his teeth.  My other dog never had bad breath, but this one has "doggie breath".

 

Regarding training -- he's already trained.  He knows the commands and does what I say.  Right now, it's my cat that's acting up.

 

 


A good trainer does not just help you train commands.  They can help you with many issues, including properly introducting the dog and cat.  You have already said that the dog was returned, there has to be a reason.  You will need to deal with that issue at some poimt.

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@CrazyDaisy wrote:

@RinaRina wrote:

 A good trainer does not just help you train commands.  They can help you with many issues, including properly introducting the dog and cat.  You have already said that the dog was returned, there has to be a reason.  You will need to deal with that issue at some poimt.

 

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I emailed the adoption counselor this morning to let her know she forgot to put his "Background form" in my folder.  I remember when she went to the copy machine to make a copy of his history, but it wasn't in the folder when I checked yesterday.  (I'm really ANNOYED about that.  I'd like to know why he was returned too, so I don't make the same mistakes.  They just told me "no kids".)


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RinaRina,

 

How fun that you got another dog! Apparently you were right when you said that’s what you needed, since your spirits have definitely improved with the arrival of your new little bundle of energy.

 

You’ve gotten a lot of good tips, so I won’t add to the opinions. But I will say that while it’s fun to enjoy your new dog and revel in the joy you feel right now, don’t take too long to set limits—for both the dog and the cat. What’s adorable to you right now might not be so cute down the road. Right now, they’re both feeding off your excitement—the dog trying to figure out what the rules are in his new environment, and the cat wondering what’s going on with this new intruder in his domain.

 

And do get your dog to your vet ASAP. He needs a complete check-up, as well as definitely finding out if he’s neutered or not. It's good that you're trying to find out why he was returned twice.  If they said "no kids" that could mean a biting problem, which would definitely need to be watched.

 

Congratulations! I wish you both a long, healthy, and very happy relationship ahead.  Cat Happy

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@Citrine1 wrote:

@RinaRina wrote:

@tends2dogs wrote:

@RinaRinaCongratulations on your new dog!!!  So exciting!  I vote, let him lick!  (as you can tell by my avatar)

 

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Ewwww! I just clicked your avatar.  LOL!  Okay!  Woman LOL


 


tends2dogs, I just clicked your avatar as well -- and I think it's precious!  What a sweet pic of you and your dog.  I kiss my dog full on like that, and his kisses are always welcome on my face!  


@Citrine1  Thanks!  Nothing like a dog smooch!

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