Our Golden is now 7. She doesn't like ANYONE doing ANYTHING to her body, except, of course, for petting, rubbing her belly, etc. So we've had quite a time figuring out the best ways to snip her nails.
I was doing it with a professional type nail trimmer, never cutting into the quick, but she still hated it. We've tried a Dremel made for dogs, but you can't hold the Dremel on the nail for too long because the nail gets quite hot and I was afraid this would hurt her.
Then I took her to a groomer. I was able to bring her in any time and watch (which is very important to me). She absolutely hated it (the regular trimmer), but at least it was someone ELSE doing it to her and they were very good (and quick) at it.
Then the other day her nails really needed trimming and I didn't feel like going out. So I defrosted about 20 small "liver treats" and gave her one immediately after cutting each nail. She still hated it, but the treats seemed to help a bit.
Next time, I think I'll take her back to the groomer. It's close and they only charge $10; I give them a $1 tip.
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