Mom to Mom

[hovis]

tracytracry I can relate so well with what you are going through. My mother also was a very proud woman. She took pride at the way she looked all the time. But there came a time when  she developed bowel incontinence. At this point we had placed her in a home where they took very good care of her. I would go to see her almost every day. She was close to 90 at this point and the problem got worse because she couldn't  make it to the ladies room any more. She would have to be changed almost hourly due to the bad rash she developed. Shortyly after that she passed away. My prayers are with you.