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Re: Would this make you uncomfortable?

Would not make me uncomfortable in the slightest. I'd donate my portion and spend my time finding a perfect gift (does not have to be expensive) for my best friend.

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Re: Would this make you uncomfortable?

On 11/19/2014 BigOrangeKitty said:

Giada De Laurentiis had such a painting party outdoors on one of her shows. What would make me uncomfortable is just the fact that it's your BFF, it was your idea, and now this friend is taking over like it was her idea and the rest of you are just guests at the party. Maybe I'm seeing it wrong but that's how it's looking to me. I hope the birthday girl realizes it wasn't just this other friends idea. She won't even let you bring the CAKE?!

That's pretty much the situation, but I don't care whose idea she thinks it is. We all love this woman dearly and we all want her to have a memorable birthday. I guess because I love to entertain so much, I feel a little uneasy about not cooking or baking anything. I understand that the host wishes to do things her way. I offered to help, but she doesn't want that kind of help. I'm planning to have a wonderful time.

~ house cat ~