@Sooner - If I'm eating a cookie, like the ones they're showing as the TSV today - no, I don't squeeze it or press it into thinness. I just eat it, one bite at a time.
I think there's a difference between holding food securely to eat it (or pick it up from your plate) and the constant "mushing" of food items that they do in the presentations.
Obviously it doesn't bother everyone, but that doesn't mean the OP doesn't have a valid opinion.
It's interesting how we're all different. I also don't tear apart bread or muffins. I slice bread and cut muffins into smaller pieces. A lot probably depends upon how you were brought up.
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