Coworker vent - Page 3

Shopchickie3 · ‎05-30-2010

Just stop doing it. Pick up your own coffee on your way in.

NYC Susan · ‎03-13-2010

@jeanlakewrote:
Here's a sanity saver. Don't expect others to imitate your good deeds. If you do something generous, that's your good motive. If you need to feel appreciated by others and you're not getting it -- then silently (no complaining at work) change your routine. Life is better now that I've lower expectations of others and don't require a lot of kudos. Good luck to you.

I agree.

And I'd like to add that direct communication can be a wonderful thing. Instead of posting little cartoons or whatever and making casual comments, it's always a good idea to speak honestly. That can certainly be done while still being kind at the same time. I think a lot of the problem here is that these co-workers are receiving mixed messages. Direct communication - with a smile - would solve the entire problem.

And yes, don't expect others to do what you think you would do in any situation. Everyone's different, with different strengths, different priorities, and different views of the world. I agree that not setting standards for others makes a world of difference. It's very freeing!

debic · ‎09-02-2010

After 10 years they probably think it's your job. Partially your fault, but thoughtless of them.

I'd drink my 2 cups and leave the pots empty.

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*Off The Deep End~A very short trip for some!*

BeccaLou · ‎02-09-2016

@Shopchickie3wrote:
Just stop doing it. Pick up your own coffee on your way in.

BeccaLou · ‎02-09-2016

@Shopchickie3wrote:
Just stop doing it. Pick up your own coffee on your way in.

Does it help to tell you I've been there and just move on don't let them wreck you day ! You are a nice person.

DecorDiva · ‎03-02-2014

Having worked in an office environment for 35 years, this is typical along with leaving food in the refrigerator, and dishes in the sink, I agree with the others, bring your own coffee, or make a pot for you to have some and don't bother the rest of the day. People will do what they can get away with!

chrystaltree · ‎05-10-2010

No man and no person under the age of 50 would ever have this problem.....because they would never have started that coffee foolishness to begin with. OP is part of the generation of women workers who felt that they had to "mother" the office. Even though no one ever asked them to do it. It's generational, we see less and less of that type of thing. All she has to do is stop making the coffee and let people take care of their own caffeine fix.

Sooner · ‎03-10-2010

@chrystaltreewrote:
No man and no person under the age of 50 would ever have this problem.....because they would never have started that coffee foolishness to begin with. OP is part of the generation of women workers who felt that they had to "mother" the office. Even though no one ever asked them to do it. It's generational, we see less and less of that type of thing. All she has to do is stop making the coffee and let people take care of their own caffeine fix.

On the mark comments! I am not a coffee drinker thank goodness and never got involved in the issues surrounding it's production. I never understood why some people obsessed over who makes coffee, when and how. Just do it or don't do it and don't make it your problem.

BeccaLou · ‎02-09-2016

@Soonerwrote:
@chrystaltreewrote:
No man and no person under the age of 50 would ever have this problem.....because they would never have started that coffee foolishness to begin with. OP is part of the generation of women workers who felt that they had to "mother" the office. Even though no one ever asked them to do it. It's generational, we see less and less of that type of thing. All she has to do is stop making the coffee and let people take care of their own caffeine fix.
On the mark comments! I am not a coffee drinker thank goodness and never got involved in the issues surrounding it's production. I never understood why some people obsessed over who makes coffee, when and how. Just do it or don't do it and don't make it your problem.

Becca Lou Wrote: Can't they all chip in and get a Kuerig ?

chrystaltree · ‎05-10-2010

@BeccaLouwrote:
@Soonerwrote:
@chrystaltreewrote:
No man and no person under the age of 50 would ever have this problem.....because they would never have started that coffee foolishness to begin with. OP is part of the generation of women workers who felt that they had to "mother" the office. Even though no one ever asked them to do it. It's generational, we see less and less of that type of thing. All she has to do is stop making the coffee and let people take care of their own caffeine fix.
On the mark comments! I am not a coffee drinker thank goodness and never got involved in the issues surrounding it's production. I never understood why some people obsessed over who makes coffee, when and how. Just do it or don't do it and don't make it your problem.
Becca Lou Wrote: Can't they all chip in and get a Kuerig ?

That would just present another problem. Keurigs don't manage themselves. Who buys the coffee packs? Who stores them? Who collects the money from people? Offices are not homes and that coffee business is an old fashioned, old timey thing that doesn't belong in today's workplace.