I went there the first time I ever visited NYC. I remember vividly, the old waiter that was assigned to my table. I ordered my dinner and asked for coffee. He said I couldn't have the coffee because it would ruin the dinner. He recommended a wine instead to compliment the meal. I didn't argue - the guy was really old. He finally brought me my coffee with dessert. Wonderful experience.
There are times when you must speak, not because you are going to change the opposing side, but because if you do not speak, they have changed you.