I am widowed twice. I had my diamond engagement ring and my late first husband's wedding ring made into a pendant.
I wear my late second husband's wedding ring on a long chain, at his request. He was afraid he would be forgotten (as if!).
My engagement ring from my second marriage was my late mother-in-law's ring, designed by my late father-in-law for her from two rings that were his mother's. So, a lot of history in my engagement ring. Still wear my wedding rings as I have no intention of getting married for a third time.
My second husband died of leukemia and I was his caregiver. Having to watch someone you love slowly die of a catastrophic illness is ghastly and soul crushing. My broken heart is still raw. I don't think I need to wear a leukemia bracelet, or some other such thing, to commerate my late husband. That whole experience will be with me until my dying breath.
Are we “winning” yet?