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Registered: ‎12-25-2010

Re: We are cold down South.......

Hello Dear Retired,

I have learned that people can be very insensitive, ignorant and rude...not only on these forums, but life in general. We watched yesterday on the news as Atlanta was in a horrible gridlock situation. It was awful. And yes, the other posters are right...certain states in certain places are not prepared for certain weather conditions. If it snowed where we live in California...we don't even know what a salt or gravel truck is. And we would be in a mess. I felt so sorry for all the people in GA that were stuck in the horrible weather mess. Also..I have an extremely soft spot in my heart for anybody in GA as my dear aunt and uncle lived in Valdosta for over 30 yrs. I hope you are staying safe and warm, my friend. You and Pop, be careful and don't walk or drive on any ice. It can be treacherous. Don't let the mean and ignorant people get you down. I know how that can be ,as I let them get to me too. Sending a warm California hug to you, my friend. Stay safe and warm.

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Registered: ‎07-03-2010

Re: We are cold down South.......

I don't think it matters where you live. In emergent conditions it matters more that people pull together and give shelter or whatever is needed to the best of their abilities. We all have severe conditions at one time or another and our actions separate us. At the end of the day do we feel good about our choices. We cannot control mother nature. So many times the weatherman predicts something and what we really get is entirely different. The southern states have different weather concerns than the northern states. Each is prepared for things exclusive to their region. What I do know is that I am tired of winter cold and snow. I would like some spring right now.

I hope the groundhog can predict and get it right this year.......early spring

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Re: We are cold down South.......

Hi, Retired08! I'm from the South and most of my family (and many of my friends) are in East Tennessee and North Georgia and Alabama. None of us appreciate the mean-spirited, mocking comments.

I just saw this posted by several of my friends and family (apologies for the length, but many posters don't like to click links):

For those saying "The South can't deal with a little snow."


This Is The Best Explanation We've Seen For Why All Of Atlanta Is Stuck In Traffic


"...It isn't just snow. In fact, if it was merely snow, we'd all be mostly fine. Admittedly, this is Atlanta, where even rain can lengthen an evening commute. On certain days, we'll even have something the traffic reporters call a "sunshine slowdown" because the glare is the only explanation for it. But for the most part, we're all used to what effect weather has on our getting to and fro.

But imagine this scenario: The weather service has been calling for severe snow for a few days, but the predictions only promise an inch or less. Now, it is one thing for you the commuter to scoff at the weather, but what if your municipal powers-that-be took the same attitude? No preparation, no salting or sanding before hand, and (this is the big one) no planned municipal closures.

So high noon rolls around and the snow arrives, and hey, that stuff is coming down pretty hard, like something seriously worth considering. It is at this time that the powers-that-be decide to close several offices and multiple schools.

Schools. Schools containing children whose parents haven't planned to fetch them until much later. So all of those parents now have to go rushing from wherever to their school of choice. Atlanta is a driving city, not a walking city or especially a rail or bus city, so thus commences a volley of unexpected traffic volume.

As the snow falls, several businesses catch the same idea, so they too decide to roll up the carpet and send their employees home a few hours early. This is a second unexpected volley of traffic.

Oh, and the sand trucks? They're heading out for their first run. We've about 30 or 40 such trucks to serve all of Atlanta, by the way.

Now this whole time, the snow is still falling and since the temperature has been hovering right around 27 degrees, the stuff is sticking to the streets. All of these commuters are crowding these streets, and while some are lucky to have found some roads favored by that first run of sanding, most are just plowing through and keeping the streets mostly ice-free by friction alone.

But with added volume, because the number of cars keeps increasing, these streets are getting crowded and the traffic is slowing and the snow melt that used to work so well isn't nearly so effective. Now that melted snow is refreezing under the tires of all of these stacked motorists. Those tires manage to melt a little of the top layer, but it freezes right back quickly. The result is a particularly Southern phenomena that looks and feels like cold glass.

What about the sand trucks? Well, they've made it through their first run, but now they can't so quickly get back to the warehouses to get more of that precious sand.

And all of those commuters? They're getting to know one another quite well, with run-ins and rear-endings and side-swipes that make it necessary for the police to be involved, and occasionally a fire truck, sadly an ambulance.

A few of those commuters just say "Screw it" and leave their cars where they get stuck, stomping off into the snow in hopes of stumbling home.

Did I mention the school buses that were still trying to get kids home at 10pm or later?

It is a horrible and dreadful and disastrous situation, and while it is easy to mock, please take a moment to consider just how quickly this escalated and how it could've been prevented. This is more than your typical case of 'The South can't deal with a little snow.'"

Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/why-all-altanta-is-stuck-in-traffic-2014-1#ixzz2rq0Ok9Vq

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Re: We are cold down South.......

This is great, too! Good people lending a helping hand.Smile

13 Examples Of People Being Awesome In The Middle Of The Atlanta Traffic Jam

"Amid all the snow-related nonsense going down in Atlanta, people are showing immense compassion on a local Facebook group, SnowedOutAtlanta...

...offers of assistance are also being publicized. People with large vehicles are selflessly posting their contact information to retrieve those stranded or bring supplies. Members are also opening up their homes for shelter..."

Few things reveal your intellect and your generosity of spirit—the parallel powers of your heart and mind—better than how you give feedback.~Maria Popova
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Re: We are cold down South.......

On 1/29/2014 Bobby K said:

Hello Dear Retired,

I have learned that people can be very insensitive, ignorant and rude...not only on these forums, but life in general. We watched yesterday on the news as Atlanta was in a horrible gridlock situation. It was awful. And yes, the other posters are right...certain states in certain places are not prepared for certain weather conditions. If it snowed where we live in California...we don't even know what a salt or gravel truck is. And we would be in a mess. I felt so sorry for all the people in GA that were stuck in the horrible weather mess. Also..I have an extremely soft spot in my heart for anybody in GA as my dear aunt and uncle lived in Valdosta for over 30 yrs. I hope you are staying safe and warm, my friend. You and Pop, be careful and don't walk or drive on any ice. It can be treacherous. Don't let the mean and ignorant people get you down. I know how that can be ,as I let them get to me too. Sending a warm California hug to you, my friend. Stay safe and warm.

Thank you sweet Bobby K.

Pop and I are safe and warm. We got supplies early yesterday and came home and hunkered down. Pop is no longer the best driver on the road and neither of us can risk a fall at our age. We were expecting the weather to be much worse, but it's bad enough that schools were closed and are to be closed tomorrow due to the ice. We didn't get the snow that Atlanta got, but we did get the ice. We will keep our little granddaughter tomorrow because her pre school is closed. The roads are just too slippery and buildings aren't equipped for heat that is needed in this kind of damp, cold weather. They just weren't expecting that much snow in Atlanta in such a short time and things went haywire. It's unusual, as you know, for the South. I just hate it when so many unkind things are said. It's not a yearly thing for us.

I'm sorry about your dear uncle. Valdosta is a beautiful area....lots of things to do, great seafood and now that they have Wild Adventures there are all kind of famous entertainers there all summer. A great place to live. Clean town and friendly, happy people. I know your Aunt and Uncle enjoyed living there.

Take care of yourself dear. Stay well.

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Re: We are cold down South.......

I just wonder what will happen next time around. It would seem that nobody planned for the worse and now the worse happened, what next. I live in an area that treats snowfall before it happens and the one time we could not handle it, we called on our friends up north in Rochester to come on down with heavy equipment. We made the record for snowfall in one week (3 years ago) and the blowing snow actually buried our plows as they moved. Schools were closed in advance, residents were told to stay home and the state and the locals worked on the roads. It was a coordinated effort of all agencies to get the job done minus the public trying to get around.

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Registered: ‎12-19-2010

Re: We are cold down South.......

I've never read your posts to be anything but comments from a true southern lady, Retired, and I know how you feel. I'm not far from you either. It's true the media elite has it's bias, but I'm not sure who's being so mean. I hope you thaw out soon!
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Re: We are cold down South.......

I hear ya! I live in Arizona......and some of my Eastern relatives are ""shocked"" that I have indoor plumbing.............

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Re: We are cold down South.......

Dear Retired, I sympathize with you that live in these affected areas. We have had a very cold, snowy winter here in WI this year. I was born and raised here but it is still starting to get to be enough for the season. I love the change of seasons. Summer is the season I least favor. I like colder weather, but not the bitter cold we are having right now. The schools were closed for two days this week so those days will have to be made up at the end of the school year. My DH & I are retired too, so we are glad we don't have to leave the house every day. Right now I am having fun decluttering the house as it is too cold to go outside for anything except necessary items or Dr. appts.

I know you bought quite a few owls for the Christmas season. My white "Lisa" owls are still up with the lights and boa's around them. I get many compliments on them too. I never did get to a CB, but hope to next time we are on vacation and we come upon one somewhere.

Stay safe.

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Posts: 12,464
Registered: ‎03-09-2010

Re: We are cold down South.......

Stay inside, stay safe and ignore any who "mock". You will get through it. (And, BTW, no one I know is mocking. They are just sympathizing with you all, so it must be a limited few who are doing the mocking.)

"" A little learning is a dangerous thing."-Alexander Pope