Quick update on the Purple/Gray kitchen post - Page 5

stevieb · ‎03-10-2010

@Desert Lily wrote:
It's not whether she asked the question; it's how the women answered it without empathy.

So... they were all supposed to join in a lie about what they were seeing to show 'empathy'... I don't think so... Anybody that needy should probably take a look at what's really bothering them... It's paint, for heaven's sake...

In my pantry with my cupcakes...

Drythe · ‎07-09-2011

@Desert Lily

How was anyone supposed to KNOW the correct answer?

These friends came to her home for a get together. No one knew in advance what she wanted to hear, there was no cheat sheet.

She asked, ‘What color do you think this is?’ Or something similar.

How would they have known what answer she wanted to hear?

If she had asked, ‘Do you like this new color?’

Of course people would have politely said, ‘Yes, Great, Really Nice’, or something similar.

"Animals are not my whole world, but they have made my world whole" ~ Roger Caras

Flatbush · ‎07-18-2015

Jeeze, it's like "The Emperor's New Clothes".

faeriemoon · ‎03-14-2010

@Drythe wrote:
@Desert Lily

How was anyone supposed to KNOW the correct answer?

These friends came to her home for a get together. No one knew in advance what she wanted to hear, there was no cheat sheet.

She asked, ‘What color do you think this is?’ Or something similar.
How would they have known what answer she wanted to hear?

If she had asked, ‘Do you like this new color?’
Of course people would have politely said, ‘Yes, Great, Really Nice’, or something similar.