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Re: How do you stay organized?!

I have too or we become overwhelmed it is just hubby and I in a small 1 bedroom apt with a lot of storage

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

@FlowerBear, I am right there with you, except I am married and there are two of us. It is a never ending challenge. Feel like I get one board nailed down and 10 more pop up. 

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

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@FlowerBear 

 

Years ago - there was a blog about organizing - can't recall the name.

 

Her advice was to start with one item and do it regularly until it becomes a habit.  Make a list of thngs that are probem areas for you and find a solution - and make a schedule and stick to it.

 

So - I made my list of things that were my issues - and worked on them one by one. 

 

  • I'm a work in progress.

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ETA:  Found it!   It's flylady dot net

 

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

When I’m cooking I prepare the sink so I wash dishes as I go.  I use cutting board and knife, when done I wash them. Works great for me.  

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

I feel that I am organized to a degree.   I'll clean up the kitchen or straighten out a drawer then my husband starts looking for something and before you know it there is dirty dishes in the sink, the drawer I just organized is all messed up and so on.  I just can't keep up with it.  I just get a little upset at times

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

I know it's " old school," but I hang a calendar with big squares , in the kitchen. I write what needs to be done each day. I check that calendar first thing, and accomplish that task. It's a small thing, but it gives me a sense of control over my life.

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

@FlowerBear .............I dont think there is a solution to your temporary problem.  I say temporary because you are still going through a grieving process with your divorce.  I call it grieving because it is a loss, no matter how much of a jerk the ex was.

 

Just keep doing what you can handle at this time and it will all work out for you in the future.

 

I wish you the best.  God bless.

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

I don't and have stopped letting it bother me. I know that isn't exactly helpful, @FlowerBear  I hope you find a system that works for you.

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

Some of us are organizationally challenged and not meant to even try to be so!!  When I worked it was either organization or extreme effciency.  I supervised a woman who was always trying things to be more organized and her work always suffered.  I finally convinced her trying to organize was working against her and making her less efficient and I was so right!  Who cares if dishes pile up or clutter amasses??!!!  I enjoy life too much to  become rigid.  There are also many who cannot be anything but organized but that is them and I would never criticize them like those of us who are organizationally challenged are constantly  being told what to do to change!!

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Re: How do you stay organized?!

Alratiba, one huge problem with Fly Lady is she CRAMS your email space. It was so bad, I had to quit.