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When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

There have been a few items that I seemed to have become obsessed with. I read the description, view the video, then watch for reviews.  I then convince myself that I don't need it...only to go back to it again and again.  I have even ordered and cancelled a few times.  Can anyone relate?  Usually, I end up ordering if I don't stop looking at it and thinking about it.  This doesn't happen often, but sometimes a top, dress, etc. takes up space in my head Smiley Happy

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

I put it in my cart @Trudey and think about it, and see if the discount fairy sends me a message.  Sometimes I will get an additional percentage off and other times I'll get free shipping.Cat Surprised

 

Of course, that doesn't work HERE! Cat LOL

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

I do the same as Lolakimono, I put it in my cart (save for later) and will think about it a day or two.  Then I'll know if I really am obsessed by it enough to purchase.  Sometimes it may sell out but then I just tell myself it wasn't meant to be and I saved money too!  Solved!

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

@Trudey  I'm going through it with something from Best Buy Woman Very Happy

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

@Trudey I do the same thing. The reason for me is i don’t like sending things back so I try really hard to get it right the first time. If it’s not TSV I do as the other ladies and put in my cart.

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

I won't tell a lie.  98% of the time I buy it.  😎

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

@Trudey ... Do you have a budget set up? Does that include savings for retirement and a separate emergency saving account? You should have some disposable income in a budget so that you do not need to feel guilty purchasing things for yourself. I always ask myself if I really need it or if I just want it. If it is something that I just want, I think about it for a few days and buy it if I still want it. We follow our budget religiously. We each have a fairly liberal "allowance" for extras that we want. We are retired. If there is something really pricey, we talk it over.

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.


@Trudeywrote:

There have been a few items that I seemed to have become obsessed with. I read the description, view the video, then watch for reviews.  I then convince myself that I don't need it...only to go back to it again and again.  I have even ordered and cancelled a few times.  Can anyone relate?  Usually, I end up ordering if I don't stop looking at it and thinking about it.  This doesn't happen often, but sometimes a top, dress, etc. takes up space in my head Smiley Happy

 

@Trudey  ...

 

This is the story of my shopping life!  I do it so often ... lately, though, I end of canceling the QVC items more often than not, because of the short time frame between ordering to being unable to cancel.


 

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

LOL!  I'm glad I'm not alone.  There is a caftan by Kim Gravel that I have been obsessed with.  I have never worn a caftan, but I just love the embellishments, fabric, color and the style.  I even posted about it on this forum.  I put it in my cart.  Then I placed it on my wish list.  I kept going back to it, so I finally ordered it.  I'm okay with sending it back if I don't love it, but I just have to try it.

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Re: When you keep going back to view an item...over and over again.

Sometimes I will wait, but, if I love it, I LOVE it.  I'll see it forever if I don't get it, sometimes literally for years.