Thought I was the only one with this problem. I only now wear Victoria Secret Pink boyshorts since I do not like elastic digging into my hips and waist (but they are 100% cotton) .... and yes, the adhesive has a problem ... and it's due to the many seams "in that area." Had no problem when wearing my Sears white old lady designs.
PS: I'm a baby boomer and I'm in that last category. Good luck with your dilemma, and believe me, it is REAL~!