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So, I just thought I was getting FATTER!

Recently, it became apparent that while yes my middle has gotten larger

Denim jeans do not usually fit me properly unless they are made with a waistbsnd!

Now, I believe that my proportions do not match up with waist-band less pants/jeans!

Somehow, where most women must go out where I go in, so regularly designed pants act funny on me. [meaning they are too tight in these places]
Interestingly, jogger-type styles ALWAYS seem to fit... drawstring waist, cuffs at bottom...and almost always knit.

But about 3 months ago I realized it was time to find "regular" bottoms without the ankle stuff.

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I NEED to be trying on clothes in person and not not rely on those measurements. But then my issue mostly, is I have a completely flat chest, like a guy, due to breast cancer and no recon. So tops NEVER fit --I usually wear high neck tank tops under something over top, and I wear mens t shirts that are cut bigger--mostly just around the house.   Pants can be a challenge too, my belly is ---poochy-- and wear mostly pull on pants. found some really nice, good looking brands that look great on me and are very flattering. I am not dressing up much --not my life style now--but ALWAYS will dress nicely and some what in style. 

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Indeed knit, drawstring pants always fit!  Truer words have never been spoken.

 

Not knocking them, I have an embarrassing number.  But......

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I love drawstring pants too. Got some really nice ones at Amazon for $29_ Got 4 pairs. LL Bean also has some but they are much more expensive.

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When I was in my 20s-30s you would never catch me in a pair of drawstring or elastic waist pants.  For the last 30 years or so, that's what I've transitioned to.

 

My problem areas have always been my broad shoulders (thanks Mom!) and now fat arms.  If I purchase large enough for my shoulders/arms then tops are too large elsewhere. 

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Those drawstring pants lovers, perhaps with waists disproportionately smaller than hips, should try wearing jeans (with belt loops) with the invisible belts available on Amazon.  They're elastic; I don't need to unzip my pants to lower them.  Inexpensive.

 

I'd lose my pants without them.

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I keep a supply of "blanket pins".    They have saved my dignity with loose waistbands, and plunging necklines...

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@LTT1 

Heehee, you just thought you were getting fatter! That's cute, made me smile cause I think that sometimes too when trying on different clothes. I just tell myself it's not me....it's the clothes! haha

 

 

 

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@GingerHead @Desertdi @Kachina624 @cindyNC @Meowingkitty 

 

Thank you all for the great replies!

@Desertdi 

 

I like those pins! Great idea! Thanks 😊 

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@LTT1      

 

You can also use them on a jacket or coat...to "hook" your readers.     di

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