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07-30-2015 10:41 AM
Good morning, shopping friends I'm watching Susan Graver but have no urge to buy anything at this point. This month has been an outstanding month for not making purchases. We will see how long that lasts!
Right now, I'm exhausted. I've been clearning under the beds which requires me to get down. 12 years ago, I had a back injury that resulted in me having difficulties getting up from a floor or a seated position without support to push on and leverage this body up. As a result. when I do this type of work, it really does me in.
I admire those "Suzy Homemakers" who seem to be able to accomplish all types of household activities in a day and then be able to prepare a full eveing meal, etc. I jut am not one of those but if I accomplish my goals for the day which are set with my limitations, then I am satisfied. I learned some time ago not to measure myself according to what others consifder the appropriate goals. Trying to measure what you do based upon others expectations which are not realitic for you can only lead to a feeling being defeated.
When I used the Mia2 this morning. I thoiught of how long I had resisted getting one of them. It is a purchase I did ot regret. At the same time, I thought of Bernie and wondered how she liked hers once she also broke over and purchased one.
Time will tell if I do much more today as right now, I really don't feel the greatest. Perhaps, I'll get back to more fun housework, etc. in the afternoon but right now.. a cup of coffee and some rest sounds good. I feel tired nearly all the time recently and wonder if it is a side effect of recovery from all those procedures, as well as that new med. Of course, the fact I'm getting older may also play a role.
Congrats to Kathleen on the new job. You may have mixed feelings about it right now as you used the word "just" in the job description. Focus upon the good things about it as well as other good things that are transpiring.
Have a great day. If you shop. shop wisely.
07-30-2015 10:58 AM
Jean, I find the older I get,mother more I have to pace myself. And I have a 10 year old to care for during the day., I do things in small amounts of time...for example I just added to a donation bag of clothes . I am going through that closet one more time today.
i am going to a cash only purchase program for a while. The only thing I use my cc card for id gas.,I have done this in the past and it makes me ver aware of my spending.,
i have my my post infusion headache so am not doing a lot today.
(((((hugs))))to all.
07-30-2015 11:27 AM
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07-30-2015 11:50 AM
Barbara--I live in an area in which many grandparents have a job 24/7 of rearing their grandchildren for a variety of reasons. The older one gets it seems the less energy is available and some children can be very demanding. You are so correct that chores. etc. have to be limited to shorter periods of time. Take care! Infusion treatments, although necessary, are draining on the body's reserves.
Kathleen--Enjoy the visit. I am glad that you are a source of help to the people for whom you are working. Too many people use the word "just" when describing something they feel not totally acceptable or meeting expectations. It is good that you are okay with the word and don't use it in the context for which many people use it.
Cash only purchases? There is evidence that shows people who pay with cash buy less than if they used a card of any type. Personally, I don't carry much cash and haven't since someone lifted my wallet with $400 in it that I had just withdrawn to use. I can always call a card company el quicko and stop the charge on a stolen or misplaced card used by someone else, but cash is gone!! I never carry more than necessary and that is when I know I'm dealing with someone who will not take cards of any type.
07-30-2015 12:12 PM
07-30-2015 12:30 PM
Twinny--I know you are happy when your grandchildren visit. I'm not an expert in lobster rolls either but I am an expert in taking a rest. I feel as if I could almost go to sleep but I will hopefully restrict it just to Kindle time while resting in bed with Midnight cuddling up with me.
07-30-2015 01:28 PM
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07-30-2015 02:20 PM
Good Morning/Afternoon! Thanks for getting us started, Jean. Suzie Homemaker would never be a description of me, even when I was younger. I enjoy cooking, but cleaning not so much. And, I can very easily distract myself -- I really "need" to go on the internet, and then spend way too much time here. Oh well, no one is perfect. When I had my accident, and for quite a while after that, getting down on the floor was a major problem for me, or at least getting back up after I had been on the floor was an issue. I still have some issues (dizziness) from time-to-time. Not fun. I hope that you do take it slow and easy with plenty of breaks.
You are doing a great job with your budget -- way to go. I was thinking that Charlene's experience is similar to mine -- it is not so much a money/budget issue, but a space and clutter issue. My latest "anti-sales" talk (to myself) is that if I buy something, I will need to get rid of something. And, I don't have many things I want to get rid of. In fact, I find that too often the new item disappoints, and I end up donating it rather than the older item. Don't know if that makes sense, but.... I have a couple of pairs of sandals that are losing their bottoms, so I think a pair of black or dark blue sandals should be my next purchase. It isn't difficult to get rid of broken things.
Sorry about your post-infusion headache, Barbara. I have heard about using cash -- makes you more aware of your spending, etc., but like Jean, I don't carry much cash with me for fear of theft/loss. I give myself a small weekly allowance ($20) which I use for things like dollar store purchases, snacks, the senior lunch, etc.
Glad you feel you are really helping the couple you are working for, Kathleen. That has to be a very good feeling. Hope your older DD finds a job and so does your DH. I don't know about your DH, but I know men who feel very insecure if they aren't working, even if they don't have major financial concerns. But, that may be an older generation. Nice post for younger DD -- San Diego!
Hope shopping with your Mom goes okay, twinny. Good idea to take it easy, especially when you have that job to do. After my Dad died, I went to my Mom's house every Saturday and took her shopping, to the library, etc. She didn't drive, and didn't live near public transportation. I found it tiring, but she was very appreciative, which was nice.
Waves to Arlene (hope you can post today), Bernie, Marijane, Rosa, snicks, LindaR, Charlene (hope your kids are doing okay after their trip, and you are dong well), Karen, pinky ann, Gayle, and all of our posters and readers.
We had a nice walk this morning -- less bugs, but still plenty, and then I went to my strong bones workout. I have an eye exam this afternoon, but nothing else of note to do. I had ordered a new telephone (landline) from Amazon that came yesterday, and I spent some time setting it up. It has many bells and whistles, so I will need to spend more time figuring out the features. My old phone kept cutting out, which was driving me crazy, so I felt a new phone was a "need". That is my story and I'm sticking to it. LOL
Hope everyone has a nice day!
Hugs,
Linda
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