Good Morning/Afternoon! I do not consider DH's granddaughters to be children either -- one is 15 and the other turns 12 in November. DH's DD was not happy that they were not invited to the reception since it would involve a trip to MA from CA and having to figure out what they could do during the reception. She inquired, but I think Claudia is right -- it was an expense concern. I have the impression this is not a poor family by any means, but they may have wanted to save on wedding expenses.
Hope V's trip goes okay, Barbara. After taking the defensive driving class (and passing, thank goodness), I can say that it is definitely not recommended that he drive through, but I know how stubborn men can be. They did recommend that you stop every 100 miles or two hours.
Glad Syd is doing her schoolwork, and you will be taking her out later. Kids always seem to have a lot of energy at her age. Later, I think they need more rest.
DD said it was raining again today -- are you having rain, Claudia? She also said that it is supposed to get warmer again after a few chilly days. Hope R is doing okay, and you accomplished your seasonal clothing change. Not time for that here.
I called the broker first thing this morning, and I hope that things are straight now. Again, they are predicting the transfer of funds to DH's children will happen late this week. I gave them my cell number in case that something else happens to mess things up. I contacted the lawyer, and her assistant told me that a draft of the papers is in the mail, and I should get them tomorrow or so. I will need to check them to make sure they are okay and set up an appointment to sign the final drafts. So, I'm hoping this can be done next week or so. These are the two major pieces of DH's estate, so I'll be very happy if this comes off.
Social Security deposited the death benefit today ($255), which is good, and the bank in Maryland deposited the small pension check today. So, things are starting to move along.
I talked to DD about my possible trips (Italy and Utah), and she is quite enthusiastic. She definitely thinks I should accept money from DH"s DD or at least the estate. I have to think about it some more, but maybe. I know that I am saving them lots of time and worry, and it really is not that much money considering how much they will be receiving. But, I need to think about it long and hard.
I had my "strong bones" class this morning, and I have my hospice grief group this afternoon.
I called the landscaper about trimming the bushes, and he has already been here to set things up. He and his son (the painter) will do the job on Wednesday. Now, I just need to get to the bank to get out the cash. And, I called the mason who repaired the wall around the house since part of it needs more repair. He will call me back about it at some point. I think I should have asked for money to keep up the house from DH's estate, but I did not do so. Oh well....
Hope both of you have a nice evening!
Hugs,
Linda
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