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[gertrudecloset]

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@CalminHeart wrote:

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@gertrudecloset wrote:

never come back to say thank you.  I've noticed that about this section of the forums.  I really do try to help and sometimes all you get is silence.  

I think I'm gonna knock it off.  It feels "fake."  Some people genuinely need help and some don't.  How to tell the difference?

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Help should be given without expectations. It's the kind thing to do.

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Where I come from courtesy is expected.  Not a gift card.  Thank you is warranted when someone does something or gives of themselves as well as getting a gift.  Courteousness = gratitude @CalminHeart .

Isn't it nice we can all be so different?

[gertrudecloset]

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@chrystaltree wrote:

Because this is social media, it's not the ladies you meet for coffee.  People ask a question but many don't even the responses.  They post on all the social media sites and people don't come back to say thank you or give updates.  I don't need or expect a thank you if something I said helped a person.

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I don't have to have to either @chrystaltree , but it would be nice knowing if I did help someone.  How can you know you've helped if they don't return to say so or to at least say thank you?  I want to know if i've helped someone so whatever it is I said or did I can continue to use for others.