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Re: Internet "Debate" About MOB Gown

@Greeneyedlady21 

 

Here is my opinion, fwiw

 

I LOVE the fabric of the mother's dress! Colors too!

However, what looks inappropriate to me is the cut.

I would order a "re-do" (if it were for me) with less "skin showing" and this includes b@@bs and back) and skip the train.

 

Online I found these, which could be a suggestion from me for a mob gown. And the fabric could be different too. Prints are unique and unusual.

When DD got married, I was way too "ruffled" from preparations to even think of creating a dress for me! My idea was to just get something "acceptable" which I did but in the pictures it looks like a "potato sack" from certain angles. (Because it really needed to be altered or else maybe I needed a petite proportion).

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Re: Internet "Debate" About MOB Gown

The women are beautiful as are both dresses. But, in church, the plunging neckline is inappropriate. If you want to show skin, have your wedding at a venue not church.
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@Isobel Archer wrote:

“I love what she wore,” Leblanc  said to TODAY.com. “My mom looked absolutely stunning. It was just as much her day as it was mine.” 


 

Well that just kind of says it all, doesn't it!

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@shoesnbags wrote:

@Isobel Archer wrote:

“I love what she wore,” Leblanc  said to TODAY.com. “My mom looked absolutely stunning. It was just as much her day as it was mine.” 


 

Well that just kind of says it all, doesn't it!


 

 

I don't understand why the daughter thinks it is as much her mom's day as it is hers.  The mother looks young.  Maybe she had her when she was a teen-ager and now is trying to relive some kind of missed youth.  It sounds like the mother threw a guilt trip on the daughter.

 

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The mom could have worn this dress.  She would have looked elegant.

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@lgfan 

But she couldn't flaunt her b00bs in that dress!

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@lgfan wrote:

@shoesnbags wrote:

@Isobel Archer wrote:

“I love what she wore,” Leblanc  said to TODAY.com. “My mom looked absolutely stunning. It was just as much her day as it was mine.” 


 

Well that just kind of says it all, doesn't it!


 

 

I don't understand why the daughter thinks it is as much her mom's day as it is hers.  The mother looks young.  Maybe she had her when she was a teen-ager and now is trying to relive some kind of missed youth.  It sounds like the mother threw a guilt trip on the daughter.

 

Long Mother of the Bride Dresses, Short, + Tea-Length Dresses for Moms

 

The mom could have worn this dress.  She would have looked elegant.


Now that is a beautiful dress.  Had she worn that, she'd still have been stunning, but not in a way that focused attention away from her daughter.

 

I find it very interesting that her daughter chose a dress that while, beautiful - and definitely flattering - was not a dress that screamed "look at me - look at me - see  how gorgeous I am!!!!"  

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It was also disrespectful to the groom's mother by upstanding her as well. Assuming that the groom's mother wore something subtle and without a train.

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The dress is beautiful, but I don't think showing the cleavage was a good idea.  She's bringing attention to herself and she knows it.

 

I don't understand why the bride said it was also the MOB's day too.  Why was it the MOB's day?

 

I also don't like bridal gowns that look like a bathing suit top with white material attached  The last one I remember was Jacklyn Smith's son's wife.  She definitely had a bathing suit top and was completely hanging out.  Tacky.

 

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