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When I learned to say no it was a revelation.  The world didn't come to an end, and I was so much happier. 

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I WHOLEHEARTEDLY concur!!!!👍👍😁

 

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You just described my typical day. 

"Live frugally, but love extravagantly."
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@Mz iMac 

 

Good advice! Woman Very Happy

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if i had only read this years ago.....spent my life being a people pleaser....it's what i was taught.....just started taking care of myself a few years ago.....

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I still feel guilty when I'm being unproductive. Doesn't stop me of course. But I don't feel good about it.

When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
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Best thing I ever learned was saying NO. ❤️

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My new favorite word is "NO"... no I'm not cooking tonite, NO I don't want to donate to the whatever fund at work, No thank you I don't want any GS cookies, I could go on and on...there's a way to be a polite "No'er" ha!

 

The other ones are great too..tee hee hee

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Those are all good ones but I still struggle with the majority of them.... 

"A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin