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04-08-2017 10:37 PM
That was the choice a character in a book I'm currently reading needed to make.
To choose a man she loved more than anyone she'd ever loved and who she felt didn't love her as much as she loved him, or to choose the man who loved her more than anyone else ever had, even though she loved him less.
How would you choose?
04-08-2017 10:42 PM
I believe I would choose the man that loved me more. It would be so nice to be cared for completely and that in time my love would grow to match his.
04-08-2017 11:03 PM
After everything shakes out, the lasting relationships are based on friendship. That's been my observation.
04-08-2017 11:04 PM - edited 04-08-2017 11:07 PM
I couldn't love someone that didn't love me but I could learn to love them back especially because he'd be kind and remember birthdays and anniversarys. How could you not love someone like that? Ad added plus if he is on the same page politically.
04-08-2017 11:05 PM
@esmerelda wrote:That was the choice a character in a book I'm currently reading needed to make.
To choose a man she loved more than anyone she'd ever loved and who she felt didn't love her as much as she loved him, or to choose the man who loved her more than anyone else ever had, even though she loved him less.
How would you choose?
I would choose the man who loved me more than anyone else ever had.
If I chose the other man, even though I loved him more, I would never be happy because he doesn't feel the same way and so I would always feel cheated.
04-08-2017 11:28 PM
I would choose the man who loved me more...having been in a relationship where i loved him more ...he walked away...and that pain was devastating i still have not gotten over...
04-08-2017 11:38 PM - edited 04-08-2017 11:40 PM
I'd choose to wait until I found someone that loved me as much as I loved him.
In either scenario presented in the OP I see too much lacking for either party to be truly happy over time.
I will "settle" on a lot of things but not love.
04-08-2017 11:43 PM
I would choose a cat
04-09-2017 02:02 AM
04-09-2017 02:41 AM
@esmerelda wrote:That was the choice a character in a book I'm currently reading needed to make.
To choose a man she loved more than anyone she'd ever loved and who she felt didn't love her as much as she loved him, or to choose the man who loved her more than anyone else ever had, even though she loved him less.
How would you choose?
If his love was that of "agape" and I felt it to be true, "philia" that I would feel (hopefully) would do just fine together. I certainly would not accept giving up either agape, or philia as love to be miserable the whole time.
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