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[littlemo]

Dear Ladies, I need some much needed advice on a no win situation. I was widowed 22 yrs ago at the age of 34. I raised my two little girls all by myself. We are very, very close. They are grown into wonderful women with familes of their own. Several yrs ago I remarried (because at the time I was at a low point and lonely). Here is the problem - My husband and I always watch my granddaughters play soccer in the fall (they are 8). My husband is very loud and I usually have to tell him to be quiet. Last fall I could not go the the last game of the season, so my husband went alone. Last night my daughter called me very upset and told me that she did not want my husband to come to the games. Apparently at the last game, he became very loud and was cussing the coach and giving comments on the game. My daughter did not tell me at the time because she did not want to upset me (I am currently dealing with cancer). My daughter tells me that the team is made up of children she teaches and parents and co-workers. She was very upset and crying. Okey how do I handle this???? I don't want anything to come between my children and me. and the holidays??? What a mess. I will listen to any advice