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just wondering what other people think? i know someone that has 2 sons and 2 daughters but 1 son has past away. and there have  2 grand daughters and 2 grand sons.  1 of the grand son is her sons son. so in there will there house is going to her son and his son.and everyone else gets nothing. what everyones opinion?

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Perhaps the ones that helped her ,is getting the house,i don't know,could be other reasons.

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You will get lots of opinions on this. But, this kind of stuff happens all the time. 

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It is a tough one and everyone has an opinion but no one really knows what is going on in others relationships except those involved.  Anything else is just hearsay. 

 

I would hope that others that might have an opinion would keep it to themselves as it is no one elses business.

 

 

 

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I don't even understand the original post so cannot comment.

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 @Pooky1  Family dynamics are complicated.We don't have all the details.Maybe that person is worried about her deceased son's child & wants to make sure he's taken care of. Maybe this person doesn't get along with her other children.
  Who knows what the real story is? I try not to judge in these situations unless I have both sides of the story & all the facts.Which seldom happens.

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Their estate to bequeath as they see fit. Not for anyone to judge.

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We don't have all the facts and don't know the family so no point in making any sort of judgment call.

 

 

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Not enough information. Maybe there isn't much besides the house to give away. We don't even know if the daughters wanted or expected anything.

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My opinion is it's none of my business to whom the house is left.