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[Sharon Zippy]

Help me! I have gone through the gambit of emotions in the past 24 hours. I found messages on my husbands cell phone from another woman. I think it is a friends wife. Her name is not listed, just initials. He has sent her funny things like "l love your cute butt" and suggestive jokes and responded that s*x is all he think about. he also sent her a msg. "K Baby" in a response to an email - he only used this with me!
she has sent him ideas on what kind of chocolate she likes, a 'chain prayer' that says you have to 'go for it, reach for the unreachable, blah blah blah, and at the end says to sent it to people you love, because I just did.
I could only see the last few days of emails, on his phone. before you think I was snooping, his phone dropped off the table, and when I picked it up, the screen was already up. I have to tell you that we live in different cities 5 days a week, and usually only see each other on weekends. we will be married 35 years in May. What do I do?