Community Chat

[cddh]

I’m feeling sad right now and was wondering how others would feel if this happened to you.

I happened to pass by our bedroom with the door closed and heard my husband ask his ex wife for a picture of herself in a bikini! When I opened the door, he rudely tried to shut the door on me. I would not allow this and stood there for the duration of the conversation that went on with minutia.

They do not converse; this was a conversation relating to divorce agreement legal issues that she was checking up on. They have been divorced 25 yrs; we have been married 17 yrs. She is a senior citizen.

He is more talk than action; has never been unfaithful except for being flirtatious.

It doesn’t matter to me any explanation he could give for this inappropriate remark, I still feel disrespected and hurt.

I am just curious as to how you would feel.

Funny how I need validation for my feelings but I really don’t want to relate this to anyone close to me. It helps to be anonymous. I wonder if anyone would just shrug this comment off as trivial.