Wondering if it is worth it for me? - Page 8

Lindsays Grandma · ‎03-10-2010

@spud188 wrote:
John you are the guy on this board with the most common sense advice for everyone else but yourself.

spud188...I don't think I or anyone else could have said it better!!! Talk about hitting the nail on the head, hope John gets the message.

The moving finger writes; And having writ, Moves on: nor all your Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line Nor all your Tears Wash out a Word of it. Omar Khayam

Lindsays Grandma · ‎03-10-2010

John, you are a smart man who gives a lot of advice and suggestions to those who ask for it. Why would a smart man like you ask people on a board if you should continue to do something that can cause you serious injury? By now I am sure you read the replies to your question...you really didn't have to read the answers, I think you already knew what you should do. Don't take anymore chances just because you love to skate...as we grow older we have to stop doing things we love because it is dangerous for us.

Go on with with your life, find something else you can love to do that won't cause injury. Stay healthy and strong for yourself, Cindy and everyone else you love. You read the posts...there is nothing more I can say that you don't already know.

Is it worth it for you? None of of us can answer that question, only your conscience can answer that. Only common sense can answer that. Look at your loving wife and ask yourself if it is worth it to her. Oh, one more thing, those of us here who care about you really don't want to read a thread about John the Hockey Nut being seriously hurt because he loves to skate. Is it worth it? Heck no.

The moving finger writes; And having writ, Moves on: nor all your Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line Nor all your Tears Wash out a Word of it. Omar Khayam

Trinity11 · ‎11-16-2014

So @hckynut, we're all in suspense. What did you decide? I hope you are healing and feeling better..

Pqfan · ‎03-09-2010

@hckynutI think it is too risky because even with the best balance skills at some point you might fall hard again and the same thing might happen.

Whatever you decide to do I certainly wish you the best!

sandraskates · ‎06-26-2014

@hckynut- Oh boy do I get it! I could have written it.

I skated almost constantly for 25 years - starting in my teens. Got up to some double jumps, had a lovely axel, passed my Adult Gold freestyle test. Then. . .I called it day for several years. About 1 1/2 years ago the ice called me back. I lasted 1/2 hour on my first day, could barely execute all my once pretty spins.
And jumps - HAH! I kept going on Sundays and one afternoon took a backwards fall on my reverse spin that was very jarring but luckily I did not hit my head.

I am back up to some consistant spins and single jumps but it's disheartening to know that what was once second nature is now a challenge, and part of that is simply fear.

I think you should go back to the ice - but not until you're healed up.

AND you will not be able to pick up where you left off years ago, and to me that is more painful then the rib.

As others have said, take it slow and work off-ice, especailly on balancing. Put some guards on your blades and practice balancing in your skates at home.

Do you know about the new devices that go around your head? One is called a Halo (made by Halo), another is made by Crashe. They come in different styles and varieties and don't look or feel as clumsy as a helmet. Many skaters - especially adults are wearing them at my rink. You should check them out.

Good luck and post an update on whatever you decide to do.

DowntonAbbey · ‎03-09-2010

Well you had to do it you might not have been happy, so sorry you fell and got hurt but so happy you are on the mend and you have a precious wife..........good life

PurpleBunny · ‎03-09-2010

Sorry you were injured, John.

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NicksmomESQ · ‎08-19-2014

@hckynut John, you have a lot of common sense!! I enjoy reading your sage advice.You even gave me some meaningful advice when I posted about the sudden death of my bff. I think you know what to do in your heart!! If you keep pushing yourself,next time you may not get up!!

Your wife needs you.You have years worth of memories on the ice!! I know what it's like to have to give up something you love & enjoy because of a health issue.Your wife deserves to have piece of mind.She wants to grow old with you.Can't you find a safer hobby?

Be well & be safe!!

Susan in California · ‎06-02-2014

John, I admire your tenacity and your passion for skating and hockey.

But, like many of the other posters, I hope you take care of yourself

and make the best decision for yourself.

My own husband is incredibly active. I have a hard time getting him to sit

down to do anything. He has told me he wouldn't want to live if he couldn't

do what he does. My father was the same way.

Can you take some classes at a local gym that involves improving balance?

At our gym, I take two classes and both focus on balance.

Every person in the class says incrementally people improve with practice.

Let us know how you continue to progress and heal.

Always take care of yourself. Myself and many here appreciate your

postings.

mzlg · ‎04-28-2011

@hckynut, well, your wife knows you the best and she did say: "You are going to do what you ARE GOING TO DO, so why are you asking me, I think you like pain".

So, perhaps you should re-read your post as though it was written by someone else and then how would you respond to that individual ...

I wish you (and your wife) the best ... and speedy recovery.