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Re: Wondering if it is worth it for me?

@hckynut - My thoughts after reading your post - It's time to hang up the skates (as hard as that might be to do). Next time you fall, it could be much worse - what if you fall and bang your head? I do commend you for trying though.

 

And, not only do you have to think of yourself if you get hurt, but think about Cindy and those furries that need you!

 

Please take care and feel better soon. My DH had a fractured rib and said it was very painful. Can you wear one of those rib bands? It might help for the sneezing and coughing a little.

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My thoughts- you must have contacts with physical and occupational therapists and/or sports medicine specialists.

 

Contact someone you trust, and get some help with MODIFYING your skating in ways that will make it safer for you. Someone trained in diagnosis may be able to see something you're doing in your current skating technique that's working against you.

 

You LOVE skating as I love music. I made a HUGE mistake several years ago thinking I could STOP making music and be happy without it.

 

I WAS SO WRONG. 

 

Shift your focus. You may be surprised to find that by figuring out the right "tweaks" you can get back on the ice and enjoy skating again. The experience will most likely be "different" than competitive hockey, but different isn't always "wrong".

 

You OWE THIS TO YOURSELF. DON'T GIVE UP WITHOUT MAKING YOUR BEST ATTEMPT.

 

There was a period of time when I couldn't sing more than 8 notes, and now I'm getting compliments about my singing again. It was hard work for me to get it back, and granted, I never had to worry about breaking a hip when I hit a high C, but the work and time I'm putting in pays off!

 

One last WARNING- don't EVER compare your efforts to anyone else. There WILL always be someone who skates better than you do, but if you are skating SMARTER, you'll start achieving progress at your own rate, and meeting your own goals, based on what will be best for you.

 

DO IT!!!

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Re: Wondering if it is worth it for me?

@violann

Smiley Happy     (I would love to hear you sing!)

 

(Sometimes there is only so much of you to go around! I would rather spend my time & effort w/ my harp! -- and only teaching piano, which was really my first instrument!)

 

 

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Re: Wondering if it is worth it for me?

I'm 65 and with bad knees. I don't do the treadmill or walk a lot of miles.

I chose the recumbent bike.  I do 8 miles three times a week. takes me little over 30 minutes to do the 8 miles.

 

My legs are pretty good . (hahaha)  Anyway, I'd discuss it with my Dr. and choose some other exercise more appropriate for your situation.

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@hckynut wrote:

 

 

After today I am not sure. Decided about a month ago to start another comeback to get to the best fitness I can, at my age. Consider myself as being fairly fit, considering all the setbacks(physical) in the last 14 months. So! 

 

One of my goals, which I really want to accomplish, is getting back my ice skating skills I have had since my single digit age. Because of my several serious health issues, and on blood thinner and Plavix, I hadn't skated for 12 years. Ran my adult league(52 years), with 2014-2015 being my last year, but all off the ice work keeping it going.

 

So, since I upped my workout loads the last 2 months to get my legs stronger, along with adding longer cardio sessions, with several intervals thrown in at different times on my treadmill and NuStep, some of my exercise equipment that did not get ruined when our basement got flooded with sewage.

 

I will shorten this up and get to the point now. I decided about 3 weeks ago to go ice skating. The rink only has Public Skating 2 afternoons a week, and that is about 3-4 too few to really have a shot at getting back once held skills on ice skates. Even moreso because of the nature of my health issues.

 

First day skating I found out within 10' I had no balance on skates, and slowly fell to the ice. Stayed close to the rink boards sonI could grab them, just in case, and good thing I did. I struggled along making very little headway, for about 45 minutes on skates? Got a little better, but some beginner skaters were doing better than me.

 

Last week only 1 day for Public Skating, I went and while better, I fell not by the boards. A nice young teen came and helped me up, and I skated back to sit down and try to mentally figure out where my skills and balance were hiding.

 

So this afternoon, off I go again to skate. I was trying to warmup up, still skating by the boards as a "just in case". Next thing I know, I am falling towards my right side, but forward. I was quick enough to get my forearm up as to not hit my head, but somehow my right chest hit the ice.

 

I have fallen enough over many decades to know bad ones from those where you get a bruise, even deep ones, and ones where they are probably more serious. I knew as soon as  my upper body hit the ice, someting happened internally, and not just a deep bone bruise.

 

I got up, stood by the boards with my head down, deep in thought. Do I really want to go through the pains of my hockey injuries of the past, or just admit I have lost it? I decided to stick it out for a little over an hour, being 95% sure what injury I had suffered, and what was causing my 8-10 level pain.

 

I drove home and decided I best get in to see my doctor, but nothing till Friday. I called my nephew-in-law doctor, and he told me to go right to the ER, after I told him I was pretty sure I had fractured at least 1 rib. He said I might have more damage than that, and I would be wise to get the xrays.

 

 

Drove to the ER and spent 4 hours there waiting and another hour or more getting the xrays and the results of them. Sure enough I had a fractured upper right rib, once again the #4 I had fractured years ago. I know the drill from my 5 previous fractured ribs.

 

This time however I won't/can't take any anti-inflammatory or narcotic pain killers. Advil/Aleve will start my colon bleeding again. Narcotics will alter my brain chemicals and I really can't chance because of my issues and Clinical Diagnosis of problems caused with that imbalance. So I am pretty much stuck with Acetaminophen (Tylenol) and it does very little for joint/back or fracture pain levels.

 

So I figure it will be at the very least 3-4 months healing, which means coughing/sneezing/lifting my arm abovementioned​ my head, and keeping my furry kids between my fractured rib them standing on or around it. Lots more use of The Motivator (Spirometer) to prevent lungs filling with fluid.

 

When it is painful to breath deeply, many fail to do so and fluid build up in their lungs. Trying to avoid real high pain levels is a natural human instinct, and for old people like myself, it is harder for most. My advantage(if there is such a thing), is I have been this route 3 times previously

 

Talked with my wife and she said: "You are going to do what you ARE GOING TO DO, so why are you asking me, I think you like pain". Chances are I will probably grab my skates Friday afternoon and give it another go. I love skating that much, even though what I doing now, can barely be called skating.

 

Long story/long day, but I thought I would throw it on the board to see what others think. Thank you if you have read this far.

 

 

hckynut(john)

 

 John, are you still taking Plavix? I was told after a heart attack the majority of patients have to be on it for a lifetime. That said, I think you are longing for a time that has long gone by. I feel for you because I know all too well that our bodies refuse to do some things that we used to do so well in our youth. I used to play tennis but RA took that away from me. I was pretty good at it and even golf now I am no longer proficient in. Actually, any athlete needs to see the light....just think of baseball players and football players....none of them are in their 70's still playing and there is a good reason for that.

 

What I worry about is that if you continue to pursue this, you may fall and have a much more serious injury and you won't recover. Also the strain on your heart....How good is this for a recovering heart patient who already has had 2 heart attacks?

 

Please re-think this.....if not for yourself then for Cindy and your fur children. They need you. Selfishly, I think our community of posters does here as well.


 

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Hickory Nut - if you continue trying to ice skate which requires good balance at your age and with your health issues, you are acting like part of your nickname!  Ha Ha - I don't think I need to say which part.  Please do risk falling again and fracturing a hip.  I think you have  been given a wake up call as each time you went o the rink you fell.  As others have said this not only affects you but also the others in your life.  I used to be an expert roller skater and would like to be able to do it now, but I know better  - I aged, my balance is good, but I still would not say at my age it is good enough.  I would say don't put yourself though more trauma and end up burdening your family/friends.  I have a friend who also could not give up a sport he excelled at but should have stopped because of age/.balance, etc. and his now crippled from a fall and he and his family are left with the results of his tryhing do what should have been left in the more youthful past.

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Re: Wondering if it is worth it for me?

@hckynut  I am experiencing the same problem.My mind wants to but my body can't.

The hardest part of getting older is loosing abilities and still having the desire.I think you need to bronze those skates and then be thankful for all of the good memories before you do some serious damage to yourself.I admire your will to stay strong and carry on but sometimes you have no choice but to give in a little....no one could ever say that you give up easy.

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Take no chances John, we miss you when you are not around to post.

 

I'm sure you will do the right thing, if not for you then for Cindy.

 

Jamma

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Re: Wondering if it is worth it for me?

John - and others - I highly recommend a 23-minute 7-day-per-week PBS program called Classical Stretch.  In my area, it airs early (5:30 a.m.) on one of our three local PBS channels.  If you are not an early riser, it is well worth recording as it is a perfect morning, after-work, or evening routine.  It is meant for everyone ages 20 to 100.  Her program will help you regain balance, rebuild muscle strength and, most importantly, develop flexibility.  The woman who developed this program, Miranda Esmonde-White, works with athletes - particularly hockey players and figure skaters - to strengthen ankles and increase flexibiltiy in their feet.  When I started the program, I didn't realize how stiff my feet were and it is amazing to have flexible feet.  You can move so much better and your whole body aligns properly.  And you can re-awaken muscle function you have lost due to inactivitiy.  Please check it out.  The "workouts" make you feel so great that you will want to do them every day - just 23 minutes.  If you are dedicated to doing this program, I think you will be back on the ice enjoying yourself again.

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I don't know, John. There are things I want to do also, but I just feel like I would be risking too much at my age (67). My bones aren't as strong as they used to be. I saw what happened to my mother a couple years ago when she took a fall in the house...surgery, nursing home, blood clots, a second surgery, more nursing home.

 

I have a favorite piece of prose that I refer to frequently and pick out the part that applies to whatever situation I am finding myself in. Recently, I thought it would be fun to try cross-country skiing again. Desiderata advised me: "Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth." I gave up the skiing idea but joined a gym for some more gentle exercise instead.

 

That being said, Cindy is probably correct....You are going to do what you are going to do. Please be careful.

A kind gesture can reach a wound that only compassion can heal. ~~ Steve Maraboli