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Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"

This expression, "asking for a friend," makes no sense to me. At first I'd see it once in a great while, and now it's every two seconds I see it on Facebook, or here, or everywhere.

 

Chicos has ads on Facebook daily, and every single one of them start with  "asking for a friend."

 

Do you use that expression? And if so, WHY?

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Re: Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"


@sunala wrote:

This expression, "asking for a friend," makes no sense to me. At first I'd see it once in a great while, and now it's every two seconds I see it on Facebook, or here, or everywhere.

 

Chicos has ads on Facebook daily, and every single one of them start with  "asking for a friend."

 

Do you use that expression? And if so, WHY?


No, and I have never heard anyone say it.

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Re: Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"

I've never heard or seen that phrase.

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Re: Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"

yes, i use it.

i do hear it often.

it is meant to be funny or fun.

 

for example......

 

"is it okay to drink a gin and tonic at ten in the morning?

...asking for a friend......"

 

in other words, i am questiong it for myself.....but not questioning too seriously.

 

 

 

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Re: Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"

https://pics.me.me/can-you-divorce-your-in-laws-but-keep-your-husband-asking-5610845.png

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Re: Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"

i am very surprised that some of you have never heard that expression before!

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Re: Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"


@sunshine45 wrote:

yes, i use it.

i do hear it often.

it is meant to be funny or fun.

 

for example......

 

"is it okay to drink a gin and tonic at ten in the morning?

...asking for a friend......"

 

in other words, i am questiong it for myself.....but not questioning too seriously.

 

 

 


@sunshine45  - great explanation! I asked for a friend hehe

 

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Re: Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"

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“...asking for a friend....”

 

Just means they want to know THEMSELVES

but are embarrassed/coy enough not to say “I want to know.’

 

It’s very tongue-in-cheek.....

 

 

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@sunshine45 wrote:

https://pics.me.me/can-you-divorce-your-in-laws-but-keep-your-husband-asking-5610845.png


@sunshine45- hahahahahahaha

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Re: Why do People "Ask for a Friend?"

The poster who said it was tongue in cheek -- is right. It's hilarious. It's a joke we make about ourselves and we let others in on the joke. At work we often say SORRY, but in a quieter voice we follow up with, not sorry. It's an inside joke that everyone gets to laugh about. I have a goofy sense of humor and I love it.   

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