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Why Do I Feel Like a Jerk When..............

......I stand up for myself? The last several years I just don't "take it" anymore. I feel as though I was a doormat for 42 years and finally got some backbone. But, here's the "but" part ~ I always end up feeling like a b**ch. I recently changed insurance companies (after 20+ years) because I didn't feel valued as a customer coupled with a conversation with a rude agent. I also fired a property manager for the same reason. Why do I sometimes lose sleep over this? Is it better to suffer in silence or put my big girl pants on?

Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea-Robert A. Heinlein