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[PIT-HAG Melissa]

On 3/27/2015 Nancy Drew said:

Such perfect people on these forums.

PLEASE, I don't recall anyone saying that...

Such uplifting ones too...

[Pashmina_1]

On 3/27/2015 Nancy Drew said:

Such perfect people on these forums.

Perfect how?

[croemer]

Speak when you are angry and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret.

[jessa]

On 3/27/2015 Nancy Drew said:

Such perfect people on these forums.

I see people sharing experience or tips of how to deal.........I didn't see anybody saying they're perfect......

[jessa]

On 3/27/2015 Pashmina said:

On 3/27/2015 jessa said:

On 3/27/2015 Pashmina said:

Time...it takes time. With time you can forgive anyone anything. And forgiving does not mean you invite that person back into your life with open arms. It means you are free from the bad feelings related to that person.

^^^^^^^nice!

Thank you. I speak from personal experience. My husband cheated on me and I thought I could not or would ever forgive him but I have. It has taken 20 years but I am at peace with him and wish him only the best in life.

I'm sorry. But in the end you found a healthy way to come out of something very bad & that takes a strong person imho. Admirable......

[Nancy Drew]

When one can't forgive (doesn't mean not held accountable or back in one's life or permission to hurt that person again) implies that the are perfect themselves. pect themselves

[jessa]

On 3/27/2015 croemer said:

Speak when you are angry and you'll make the best speech you'll ever regret.

^^^^Post Of The Day!!!!!

[Pashmina_1]

On 3/27/2015 Nancy Drew said:

When one can't forgive (doesn't mean not held accountable or back in one's life or permission to hurt that person again) implies that the are perfect themselves. pect themselves

[Pashmina_1]

On 3/27/2015 jessa said:

On 3/27/2015 Pashmina said:

On 3/27/2015 jessa said:

On 3/27/2015 Pashmina said:

Time...it takes time. With time you can forgive anyone anything. And forgiving does not mean you invite that person back into your life with open arms. It means you are free from the bad feelings related to that person.

^^^^^^^nice!

Thank you. I speak from personal experience. My husband cheated on me and I thought I could not or would ever forgive him but I have. It has taken 20 years but I am at peace with him and wish him only the best in life.

I'm sorry. But in the end you found a healthy way to come out of something very bad & that takes a strong person imho. Admirable......

Again thank you but it did take 20 years. lol!

[VioletEyes]

On 3/27/2015 Nancy Drew said:

Such perfect people on these forums.

Nancy, I assure you, I am one of the imperfect people.

Not everything can be forgiven or should be forgiven. Abuse is something that comes to mind and in my world, it is unforgivable.