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12-12-2018 11:48 AM
Kind
Honest
Intelligent
Can do or fix ANYTHING with his hands
Works hard
Faithful
Great dad and grandpa
Tall, dark and handsome
Mercurial/moody
World's worst procrastinator
Can be sharp-tongued
He is helpful to me but does it on his own time frame which means I'm lucky if it'll happen before I die of old age, lol.
He is FAR from perfect, but so am I. My husband grew up on a dairy farm and was himself a dairy farmer until our early forties. He was raised in a traditional gender-role world where men took care of the outside and women took care of the inside. He has come a long way, though, in seeing things differently.
He is a better cook than I am (and I'm a great cook) but rarely does any cooking if it's not on the grill. He isn't inclined to do anything inside the house unless I ask, and I have to be willing to wait (because ... procrastinator). He is a night person and I am a morning person. He works second shift and his workday ends at midnight since he is a manager. He unwinds till about 3am and gets up late morning. On weekends he doesn't really get it in gear to do things around the house and yard until my day is ending (4pm'ish). So I feel like I'm always waiting for him. Plus, we rarely go out because he is at work six out of seven evenings. Now, I'm so used to never going out at night that I don't even want to when we DO have the opportunity.
I can think of a lot of things I would want or like in a partner that would be better. But I might be trading off a different "list" of good qualities, as well. We have decided to keep each other.
12-12-2018 11:56 AM
52 years of having a best friend at my side.
12-12-2018 12:00 PM
I met my husband 45 years ago right after Christmas. We just "clicked" immediately.
He has always been my "rock." He never complains about me holding him back from traveling or anything else for that matter, even though I have Type 1 diabetes and have woke him up since the first night we were married, needing insulin or attending to my health. He is a wonderful dad and when the children were small, he was the dad who changed diapers and fed them every chance he got. He treated me so well over the years that I have absolutely no idea what I would have done without him. I guess you could say that he is just my soulmate and it was all meant to be.
He put up the Christmas tree this year and decorated all of it. I have been sick the last few weeks so he is wrapping all the gifts. He retired a few weeks ago and I love having him around. He is everything to me and I love him more now then ever.
12-12-2018 12:00 PM - edited 12-12-2018 12:01 PM
My Dh is a little good AND a little bad..... 40 years of marriage
Good person... kind and good natured... was a wonderful provider and we have a secure retirement income because of his years of service.....
BUTTTTT>>>>>> Now retired with LOTS OF TIME ON HIS HANDS.. he has no desire to become productive around the house... will sit around or lay in bed reading magazines or watching endless hours of car racing on TV while I am cleaning house... walking the dogs... cleaning up the yard.
I do not say anything but do try to motivate him to start doing something after going on two years of doing NOTHING. I am not his keeper and not his Mother.... and do not want to become a "B" if you know what I mean....
but sooner or later he is hopefully going to get bored of doing nothing and want to start becoming a bit more productive in his day????? hmmmm.... we will see!
12-12-2018 12:17 PM
Don't know, I've never had a good husband, but Have had a couple of bad ones.
12-12-2018 12:21 PM
I'm just thankful DH is going to be around for a while more.
No matter what anyone's complaint(s) may be-someday those complaints would be traded away for just one more day with him for many wives.
I would no more assess what makes DH a "good" husband anymore than I would like to be assessed as a "good" wife.
12-12-2018 12:46 PM
He never judges me.
He always supports me emotionally.
He tells me he loves me all the time.
He cooks for me.
He goes out of his way to make sure I am happy and comfortable and that I have what I need or what I want.
He never fusses at anything I do or don't do.
He tells me I'm pretty.
He is the kindest person I've ever known.
He's good to my children.
He never fusses, gripes, or gets mad.
He is a wonderful companion.
I learn from him.
He is worthy of my love, respect, loyalty, and admiration.
I could go onnnnnnnnnnnnn.....................!!!
12-12-2018 12:48 PM
He has been a good provider. We are living on retirement savings that he brought the majority to.
He accomplishes things he sets out to do.
He has been a good father to our 3 sons.
We have been married 43 years and I am now learning who he is because he no longer works full time. I suppose I could have learned this when we first got married but I immediately had my first son and two more came next so we really didn't have any alone time together. That is changed now because we have the time together now.
I gues I have said the best thing that he did for me was to show up for the wedding.
We have our ups and downs but we are still together and are a team.
12-12-2018 12:57 PM
@YorkieonmyPillow. He sounds like a “keeper” to me.
12-12-2018 01:00 PM - edited 12-12-2018 01:02 PM
In this day and age, hands down it would have to be his ability to earn a living and his ability to stay at one job for a huge number of years with not one single complaint from a coworker. I applaud him. I know he has put up with a lot of politics at work but he has always kept his opinions to himself. He gives the appearance of a neutral stance. I don't know how he does it. He has never felt the need to voice his opinion on controversial topics, has never rubbed anyone the wrong way. No grudges from anyone ever. I'm the only one who knows how he feels about issues and believe me.....ha, sometimes it rubs me the wrong way.
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