Re: WHAT DO YOU ADMIRE ABOUT YOURSELF...PHYSICALLY... - Page 8

AnikaBrodie · ‎03-10-2010

I am trustworthy, non-judgemental and intuitive. I have the ability to view two sides of a story before giving advice. Some years ago a friend came to me asking for advice re. a serious problem she was having. After several weeks of supporting her I asked why she came to me. Her response was "because I knew I could trust you." That was one of the nicest compliments I could have received. I still mentor her on occasion when she is experiencing a difficult challenge.

"Faith, Hope, Love; the greatest of these is Love." ~The Silver Fox~

Marienkaefer2 · ‎03-09-2010

I don't know if I would use the word "admire," as to me, that sounds vain. I think I would use the word "value" instead.

But one "skill" or "talent" that I have is empathy. Not just for similar situations that I might have experienced, but the ability to completely put myself in someone else's shoes and see the world from their perspective.

Maybe that sounds odd to some, but it really is a rarer quality than one might think. And I've come to the conclusion that you really can't learn it. You either have it or you don't.

I think I inherited it from my dad. My dad was the type of person that could relate to just about anyone, and meet them where they were.

It's an ability that has served me well as a counselor and academic advisor, working with students from middle school to college, to refugee students trying to learn English.

If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need.--Marcus Tullius Cicero

AngelPuppy1 · ‎03-13-2010

@Shanus wrote:
@AngelPuppy1 wrote:
Let's see --- well, now --- this is a difficult question -- for me!

I have never had much self esteem and any time I got a compliment, I was appreciative, but never really felt worthy. If I got attention from men back in my younger days --- I would think --- why? I never thought I was anything special in the looks department - body or face. But I have been told that I was really very attractive and had a very good figure when I was younger. I always tried hard to look the best I could.

I would say that the physical attributes that I was the most happy with were: I had very, very thick hair with a lot of body, good cheek bones, and was very slim and tallish. I thought my eyes were my best feature.

As for emotional qualities ---- I feel my best qualities would be that I am very low key -- I am happy with the smallest things. I love deeply and with all my heart. I would do anything in my power to help friends and family in need or to make their lives happier or better. I am truthful, honest, sincere and compassionate.
@AngelPuppy1 If you are able to love deeply, the most important person to love is yourself. Takes work, but so rewarding. 😘

@Shanus

I read somewhere that in order to love others, you have to love yourself first! As I've gotten older, I am learning that I am deserving of love, too! This has been a hard thing for me, but I am getting there --- slowly!!!

"A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin

Shanus · ‎05-17-2010

@mistriTsquirrel wrote:
I write well.

I'm smart.

I'm a smart***.

I'm pretty.

@mistriTsquirrel Oh yes. You definitely are a sight to behold!

AngelPuppy1 · ‎03-13-2010

@mistriTsquirrel wrote:
I write well.

I'm smart.

I'm a smart***.

I'm pretty.

@mistriTsquirrel

You are adorable! And you bring so much joy with these wonderful posts and pictures!

"A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin

Shanus · ‎05-17-2010

@AngelPuppy1 wrote:
@Shanus wrote:
@AngelPuppy1 wrote:
Let's see --- well, now --- this is a difficult question -- for me!

I have never had much self esteem and any time I got a compliment, I was appreciative, but never really felt worthy. If I got attention from men back in my younger days --- I would think --- why? I never thought I was anything special in the looks department - body or face. But I have been told that I was really very attractive and had a very good figure when I was younger. I always tried hard to look the best I could.

I would say that the physical attributes that I was the most happy with were: I had very, very thick hair with a lot of body, good cheek bones, and was very slim and tallish. I thought my eyes were my best feature.

As for emotional qualities ---- I feel my best qualities would be that I am very low key -- I am happy with the smallest things. I love deeply and with all my heart. I would do anything in my power to help friends and family in need or to make their lives happier or better. I am truthful, honest, sincere and compassionate.
@AngelPuppy1 If you are able to love deeply, the most important person to love is yourself. Takes work, but so rewarding. 😘
@Shanus

I read somewhere that in order to love others, you have to love yourself first! As I've gotten older, I am learning that I am deserving of love, too! This has been a hard thing for me, but I am getting there --- slowly!!!

One day at a time @AngelPuppy1.

AngelPuppy1 · ‎03-13-2010

@kivah wrote:
Some days, I just wonder how I made it this far. I'm a very young 77 yrs old - never married - no children. I had a fear of marriage because I had a mentally-abusive father - who was very mean to my mother. I never realized this - but years ago, I listened to one of those radio talk shows and a female called in - and was in the same situation as me!!!! My mother died exactly 36 yrs ago from ovarian cancer (I took care of her) - and 12 yrs ago, I was diagnosed with the same cancer - but I'm in the small percentage of women who "beat it." I had a few good friends thru the years - now I'm totally alone - with no family. My life was full of ups and downs --- but I always try to see the positive side. Having an adorable little dog helps me every day.
I'm a Survivor!!!!
Shanus: I have blonde wavy hair - and in the 1970s, the style was straight. I straightened my hair - and it looked horrible on me. So --- I realized how fortunate I was to just brush/comb my hair and go!!!!! Even after having cancer, my hair grew back and looks as good as it did before chemo.
I'm also a pleaser --- did too much, gave too much, etc. etc. Not appreciated!!!!

@kivah

You sound like a wonderful, beautiful person! You have gone through so much, and you have done so much good for others. I can feel through your writing that you have a kind and giving spirit!

"A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin

151949 · ‎03-09-2010

I'm strong. I have the courage of my convictions and I stand up for myself.

I went to school in an inner city public high school. You had to be strong to make it there. It was a good life lesson. We like to watch Blue Bloods on Friday and my DH frequently tells me that the granddaughter reminds him of me. She is a very strong character. A great example of a woman who will get by well, no matter what life throws at her.

hckynut · ‎03-10-2010

Will pass on the word "admire". There are many things in my life in which I am "proud" to have been able to accomplish, while at the same time being humbled by the recognition given me from others.

hckynut(john)