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[homedecor1]

I took everyone's advice and called HER directly last night to see what the problem is - GEEEEEZZZZZZZ .... I won't say more except her mother didn't use her mother to babysit, buy things, etc. and therefore, she can't understand why and how our family gets joy out of spending time (when not requested) with the little one!

Our family always extends invites to them - they never go!

I told her I was upset about being disinvited to the holiday at her parents - her answer was you'll have YOUR day with us on 12/25 why do you need to be with MY FAMILY? (Who her father/mother?) -- just let this one go!

Late last evening my son called and we discussed some things I did NOT know NOR realize what has been happening in the past 7 months ...

whoever suggested he was "going by her directives" is the understatement apparently she is unhappy and doesn't believe "family" is necessary. Can't understand why my boys have such a connection w/their family (inc. extended family members) & feels its "dysfunctional" my sons are close with us. (She is an only child from an entire line of only children on her mother's side - apple obviously doesn't fall far from the tree)

Oh well - the answer is she is a spoiled rotten brat who wanted a child desperately but is now "bored" with motherhood -- and enjoys working so she doesn't have to be home all day taking care of a child and can't understand why its necessary to keep a nice house (she thinks my son is OCD). YIKES!!

Needless to say - there are many other issues that need to be worked out.

I am going to spend the time enjoying my gdaughter and there are no rules OR time schedules that I need to worry about.

THANKS EVERYONE FOR YOUR CONCERN - AND MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Homedecor1