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Looks sure don't hurt but they're not the first thing I look for, although, there definitely has to be a physical attraction. I am more attracted to taller rather than shorter men.

 

non-negotiable traits I look for in a potential partner are men who are:

intelligent/articulate

easy going with a sense of humor

kind/considerate

well groomed

nonsmoker/non or light drinker

 

 

 

 

 

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Intellectually curious

Feminist

Non religious

Active

Adventurous

Foodie

Well groomed

Well dressed

Self sufficient

Kind

 

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You can learn a lot by watching how they treat their mother and sisters.

Thoughtful

Caring

Strong work ethic

Shows compassion

Fun to be around

Isn't too serious 

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Intellect, integrity, good lover and  sharing the same values.

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Integrity, honesty, willingness to communicate, gentle, a good sense of humor (never underestimate that), humility, a good listener, and a man who has empathy. 

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@deepwaterdotter wrote:

At my current age, mobile and in good health.


@deepwaterdotter And isn't too cheap to spring for hearing aides should the need arise!

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Most everything that has been listed would work for me too but a biggie for me is financially responsible.

Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit, but Wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit salad.
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I met my husband six weeks shy of my 17th birthday.  So looks ruled.  They still do.

 

It has all worked out well.

 

 

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Any man I date or marry.....must be kind, gentle, compassionate, open minded, charitable, have similar religious views, have a great sense of humor, like strong women, have a job or career that supports him, etc. 

 

He and I also need to have similar political views - not necessarily identical.

I went out with a man about 6 years ago and thought it was going well....until he started talking politics and his views were hateful, bigoted, and misogynistic. When he called again, I kindly explained that I could not see him again because of it.

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@Steffdoggy10
I agree...💯👐
Chemistry....is important.!!!
If you don't have that together...not going to last ! Jmho

I agree with so many of these traits!!

I also think your partner should be your best friend...your soft place to fall ...loves you unconditionally ❤️