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[shoekitty]

10% of conflict is due to a difference in opinion. 90% is due to the delivery and tone. 

I actually read the OP post. And each post after.   I found OP opinion/ criticism was civil and well stated. It bordered on constructive critisism.   Its what came after, IMO that brought out comments that weren't an opinion but an attack. That's My opinion on the opinion of critism. 

[TheMemphisVette]

ok......

so everyone should make a new id and start a thread calling hosts rude, inattentive, over the top and extra loud.

this appears to be ok considering all the defending posts 

unreal

[Zhills]

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@CalminHeart wrote:

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@Tori3569 wrote:

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@banksdm wrote:

I have QVC on in the background while I work and my goodness, Mally and Shawn are just too much today. Mally is extra loud and over the top and Shawn is more rude and inattentive than usual.

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So you joined this forum today to complain about someone being rude by being rude? 

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OP wasn't rude. She gave her opinion. We all can state opinions, even if you don't agree with them.

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She didn't give her opinion! 

She made a blanket statement!  More of an accusation.

That's my opinion of her post!

[wifey2qt]

@CalminHeart - not me! why do you ask???

[wifey2qt]

@manny2  - "respectful" sure.........but thread after thread is full of just plain meanness. We all are full of opinions, why not focus on the positive ones? 

[manny2]

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@wifey2qt wrote:

@manny2  - "respectful" sure.........but thread after thread is full of just plain meanness. We all are full of opinions, why not focus on the positive ones? 

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Not all opinions are positive. @wifey2qt 

It is an unrealistic expectation to post on a board and expect only positive.

[wifey2qt]

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@manny2 wrote:

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@wifey2qt wrote:

@manny2  - "respectful" sure.........but thread after thread is full of just plain meanness. We all are full of opinions, why not focus on the positive ones? 

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Not all opinions are positive. @wifey2qt 

It is an unrealistic expectation to post on a board and expect only positive.

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Of course, but its great to call out the bullies!  

[TheMemphisVette]

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@TheMemphisVette wrote:

ok......

so everyone should make a new id and start a thread calling hosts rude, inattentive, over the top and extra loud.

this appears to be ok considering all the defending posts 

unreal

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is this a go?

[CalminHeart]

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@Etoile308 wrote:

just like grown folks should be able to state opinions without it being infered that they are rude, bashing, or unkind

I think there may be a solution to cut down on the vast majority of threads about the host that it couldn't hurt to try

some host and a few vendors could behave as adults in a well groomed professional manner while imparting information about the product being featured

and save the theatrics for the stage

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Perfect response. 

I just re-read OP's post and there is nothing snarky or rude in it. It's just her opinion. The snarky responses are what's rude, bashing and unkind.

It's ok if people don't like some ofd the hosts. It's also ok if they do. One side isn't more right than the other.

[CalminHeart]

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@manny2 wrote:

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@wifey2qt wrote:

@manny2  - "respectful" sure.........but thread after thread is full of just plain meanness. We all are full of opinions, why not focus on the positive ones? 

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Not all opinions are positive. @wifey2qt 

It is an unrealistic expectation to post on a board and expect only positive.

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Everyone who posts has to know they'll get some mean and snarky responses. Those aren't opinions. They are just mean and an attempt to intimidate.