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07-30-2018 02:23 PM
@Shawnie wrote:Tragic. But no fence around that pool??? They fenced their own pool but go to a neighbor who hasn't? I really can't stand to hear the can't watch them 24-7 excuse. It's a toddler. You watch them all the time. If I were him I could never trust her with my babies.
No eating, sleeping, cooking, cleaning, bathing, laundry, shopping, bathroom breaks? Nothing but watching one or several (infants, toddlers or pre-schoolers) for 86,400 seconds a day?
Good luck on that one.
07-30-2018 02:39 PM
To know that it could had been prevented, i imagine the guilt is overwhelming.
07-30-2018 02:52 PM
@Marp wrote:
@Shawnie wrote:Tragic. But no fence around that pool??? They fenced their own pool but go to a neighbor who hasn't? I really can't stand to hear the can't watch them 24-7 excuse. It's a toddler. You watch them all the time. If I were him I could never trust her with my babies.
No eating, sleeping, cooking, cleaning, bathing, laundry, shopping, bathroom breaks? Nothing but watching one or several (infants, toddlers or pre-schoolers) for 86,400 seconds a day?
Good luck on that one.
At bit of exaggeration, No Eating??? They should be protected. You can do all of that, know where they are and protect them. I had to laugh at your list. My mother even took us into the bathroom with her.
07-30-2018 03:12 PM
I saw this interview as well as the story on Inside Edition after this happened.
So heartbreaking, makes me just want to cry for them.
Their next baby is due in October.
Hope they can stay strong and get thru this as a family together.
07-30-2018 03:17 PM
@Shawnie wrote:
@Marp wrote:
@Shawnie wrote:Tragic. But no fence around that pool??? They fenced their own pool but go to a neighbor who hasn't? I really can't stand to hear the can't watch them 24-7 excuse. It's a toddler. You watch them all the time. If I were him I could never trust her with my babies.
No eating, sleeping, cooking, cleaning, bathing, laundry, shopping, bathroom breaks? Nothing but watching one or several (infants, toddlers or pre-schoolers) for 86,400 seconds a day?
Good luck on that one.
At bit of exaggeration, No Eating??? They should be protected. You can do all of that, know where they are and protect them. I had to laugh at your list. My mother even took us into the bathroom with her.
I would never want to judge a parent in that kind of situation. There but for the grace of God go any of us. It is heartbreaking. Kids are incredibly fast. In a blink of an eye my 2 y/o gd can get into anything. As far as the no eating response, if you are watching 24/7, that includes turning your back to get things out of the fridge, cooking or anything. I know in that period of time my gd or dd (when she was a tod) could get out a door and do anything. In CA we are required by law to have a fence around our pool or an alarm system. I don't know if that's how it is in all states. There is a huge difference between being a neglectful parent and a good parent but an awful accident happens.
07-30-2018 04:11 PM
Why was there not a fence around the pool?
07-30-2018 04:53 PM
What kind of fence are you all thinking should have been around the pool?
The article says the kids were playing inside the house and this little girl went out the door into the backyard.
I know many people with pools. I don't know one person that has a fence right around the pool that you have to go through to get to the pool.
People have fences around their backyard where the pool is located but once you are in the backyard, the pool is there.
My relatives have a built-in pool and 2 small children. All doors leading out of the house are locked if the kids are inside. All the doors have locks towards the top where a child cannot reach.
Their pool also has a cover that can withstand the weight of an adult falling on it and you won't drown. You can actually walk on it.
07-30-2018 05:35 PM - edited 07-30-2018 05:36 PM
I missed the interview. Was anything said about any police investigation and/or any possible charges? In S. Florida where I live you get arrested for these type of child neglect or abuse situations..... unless of course you are rich and famous. I am not kidding or exaggerating.
07-30-2018 05:41 PM
We put a pool in about 7 years ago. We were required by our city to have childproof, locking gates and fencing around the pool even though we had a fenced in yard.
07-30-2018 05:47 PM
@Shawnie wrote:Tragic. But no fence around that pool??? They fenced their own pool but go to a neighbor who hasn't? I really can't stand to hear the can't watch them 24-7 excuse. It's a toddler. You watch them all the time. If I were him I could never trust her with my babies.
That is not an excuse, it is a fact. It is impossible to have eyes on your child ALL THE TIME.
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