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Thank-you veryone for your well wishes, they really do mean a lot.

 

Last week, when Charlie would go out on to the screened in porch to sleep, my other cats Cody and Buddy, would lay with him.

 

I think Charlie knew that his time was growing short, and I think Cody and Buddy knew it too.

 

I'd like to think that they were saying "Goodbye" to him in their own way.

 

Now Charlie is young, healthy and full of energy again.

 

I'd like to think that he's with my parents who will take care of him until I get there.

 

I know that they will give him all the love and petting that I can't give him here anymore.

 

 

I miss him so much!

 

 

Just last month he seemed fine.

 

 

It always surprises me just how fast they can go downhill.

 

 

And then there were three.

 

Cody, Buddy, and Christie, which was my dad's cat, and became mine after he passed.

 

The house is emptier without Charlie in it.

The Sky looks different when you have someone you love up there.
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I hope someday you will feel like getting another pet. When you live alone they are such a comfort ...right now I understand the hurt  you are feeling

 

I have never been able to get another dog

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@Anonymous032819 

 

I'm so sorry for the sadness and pain you're feeling, but you did what had to be done, to prevent Charlie from suffering.

 

You're a loving Mom to do that for him, no matter how much it broke your heart.Heart

 

 

IF IT SHOULD BE

If it should be that I grow weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then you must do what must be done,
For this last battle cannot be won.

You will be sad, I understand.
Don't let your grief then stay your hand.
For this day, more than all the rest,
Your love for me must stand the test.

We've had so many happy years.
What is to come can hold no fears.
You'd not want me to suffer so;
The time has come -- please let me go.

Take me where my need they'll tend,
And please stay with me till the end.
Hold me firm and speak to me,
Until my eyes no longer see.

I know in time that you will see
The kindness that you did for me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I've been saved.

Please do not grieve -- it must be you
Who had this painful thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years;
Don't let your heart hold back its tears.

--- Anonymous ---

 

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.
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@Anonymous032819 @Such a beautiful tribute...I can’t stop my tears.My heart aches for you...sooo very sorry for your loss today.

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@Anonymous032819 

 

Charlie will always be with you.......

 

Last Night
 
I stood by your bed last night; I came to have a peek.
I could see that you were crying, you found it hard to sleep.
 
I purred to you softly as you wiped away a tear,
"It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."
 
I was close to you at breakfast, I watched you pour your coffee.
You were thinking of the many times your hand reached down to me.
 
I was with you at the shop today; your arms were getting sore,
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
 
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
 
I walked with you toward the house, you fumbled for your key.
I gently put my paw on you; I smiled and said, "It's me."
 
You looked so very, very tired and sank into a chair.
I tried so hard to let you know that I was standing there.
 
It's possible for me to be so near you everyday,
to tell you with such certainty, "I never went away."
 
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew....
in the stillness of the evening, I was very close to you.
 
The day is over, I smile and watch you yawning
and say, "Goodnight, God Bless, I'll see you in the morning."
 
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll rush across to meet you and we'll stand side by side.
 
I have so many things to show you, there's so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out....then come home to be with me
You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. This happened to me two months ago and I am still so sad. My little 17 year old passed away next to me on the sofa. Just stopped breathing. I know how sad and devastated you are feeling.

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Not easy to say good bye, but I always try to think of what a happier home I had with my critter friends.  It hurts but I would do it over again in a minute.  They need us as much as we need them.  Rest in peace Charlie.  You were a good companion.

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Sorry to hear about your Charlie. He is at peace now and you put his welfare first which was the right thing to do.

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OMG,I am crying and can hardly type.

 

I'm so very sorry .

 

Godspeed Charlie   {{{{hugs}}}}}

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@proudlyfromNJ 

 

My deepest condolences to you, as well.

 

It's so heartbreaking to lose a loved one.

You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.