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@NEvans2 wrote:

Twenty three years ago my younger brother dropped dead while he and his pregnant wife were making dinner. He was 34. Since then, I think my attitude towards death has changed. I am 65, in very good health, and am thankful for every morning my feet hit the floor. My younger sister is having a hard time with growing older and I always tell her I' ll take old age over the alternative.


This is exactly what I say to my husband when he complains about getting old. You got two choices Buddy die or grow old 😊

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@BadWolf wrote:

@esmerelda  I get very sad when I see older people listed.  I really think they were the "Greatest Generation" and cannot imagine surviving depression and all of the hardships they endured.  Their leaving is truly our loss.


I so agree!!!!

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I don't read the obits and usually learn of co-workers deaths through friends since we were all a close knit group at work.  I have lose three close friends who were co-workers during the time I have been retired and during my span of forty one years working in the school system lost many co-workers who I cared about.

 

  I worked at several schools and made a lot of friends and in fact over the years so many people passed through my life who left strong impressions.  That goes for people outside of work.  I have been blessed knowing so many wonderful people, learning from them and sharing friendships  Those who have passed make me sad and I always remember all the great memories I had with that person.  I think most of the people I worked with on all levels left a lasting impression . It is sad when I hear of a c-worker passing though , and I cherish their memories.

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DH says he makes sure he looks at the obits, as we are at an age where people we went to school with and know could pass away at any time and he wants to be sure he knows about their passing!  I told him --- well, it's a blessing that each day goes by and we're not in them!  

"A day without sunshine is like, you know, night." - Steve Martin
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@Sheila P-Burg wrote:

 

 

Like @NEvans2  said.

 

I "am thankful every morning my feet hit the floor". I choose not to worry what might be and live for the present.

 

 

 

@Sheila P-Burg 

 

Been saying that for many years now. I don't know anyone that can change the past, or predict the future. So the focus should be on the present.

 

"Mankind was born to live, not to prepare for life".

 

 

 

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I read the obits from back home everyday.

 

Recently I have seen the deaths of 3 classmates.

 

2 from high school who also attended college with me and we were friends in both settings. 

 

The other from high school; a passing "hello" but nonetheless when you see a person your age it stirs something sad inside of you.

 

We know it's life; I don't think there is anyone here who doesn't get that fact. 

 

I'm hardly Methusalah-I hope I have at least another decade or so on this planet.  Whether I do or not is not in my hands.

 

No matter-somebody dies, and somebody mourns.  Circle of life.

 

Just because "it is what it is" does not diminish the life of the deceased.

"" Compassion is a verb."-Thich Nhat Hanh