I've been watching this show from the beginning and do not interpret what I see and hear on this show in the same way as many of you.
Dr Pol started life in the Netherlands, but by my country ways and standards, he is a no frills, no nonsense, git er done, redneck. He has a strong, tight bond with his wife and children, but the man runs wide open all the time and is not what I'd call sensitive or attentive. Personally, I get it; I was raised by farmers with the same work ethic as Dr
Pol, and if Grandpa or Dad yelled at me for not carrying my end of the load with farm chores, I knew those words were based on what I was not doing well at that time, and did not mean anything beyond that.
In my eyes and by my standards, Charles Pol is one LAZY *** human being! He whines like a baby when he's injured and sick. OMG, I'd like to have $1 for every time I've yelled at him on TV and told him to grow a pair and move on! I feel sure Dr Pol has said as much to Charles and likely far more. Charles Pol is lying to himself if he thinks he's a tough, hard working man like his father.
As for a very pregnant Dr Emily doing farm calls, she knew what she was getting into with her career choice, and with 2 of her children born while she worked for Pol Vet, there seemed to be very few episodes with her not pregnant!